Jones19 Posted July 6, 2005 Posted July 6, 2005 Ok you may have read my other thread... But i just feel like lost everything good... The girl i dated for nearly 3 months was someone ive known since i can remember we grew up together went on holidays and have loved each other for years and now we have broke up she say's that she doesn't want a relationship...But deep down i know she is seeing my so called best mate and I'm almost sure of it. Ive asked her if she is but totally denies it all and we fall out when we talk about it.... I ain't spoke 2 my best mate for ages because i think he is seeing her infact I'm sure of it but can't prove it. I'm suppose to be going on holiday in 4 weeks there is 6 of us going and (me so called best mate is coming). I don't know if i can do it I'm sure he is seeing the girl i loved for years and he split us up i just know it. I ain't going to speak to him but i don't want to spoil the holiday for my other mates. Plus all my mates hang out with my ex bird and her best mate and i can't do it anymore because i keep thinking of my so called best mate and my ex been together... I'm so p***ed off and upset that she as done this to me i feel like an idiot for letting all this happen. I keep saying to myself i might be wrong about them both seeing each other on the quiet but everything makes me think there are together... Its totally destroying me and i can't think straight anymore i keep been moody around my parents and my mum says i need to cheer myself up but i can't ive lost all my mates because i can't hang about with them and go out on a saturday night like i used 2. why i ask as she done this to me i gave her everything and she doesn't even tell me the truth and makes me look like an idiot for saying there are together. I gave her all my mates and i introduced her to her best friend who i know quite well. Why as she done this to me...
westernxer Posted July 6, 2005 Posted July 6, 2005 Why is she doing this to you? Because love's a bitch, that's why. And stop talking to her... you're only hurting yourself. Some best mate she turned out to be.
Princess_oc Posted July 7, 2005 Posted July 7, 2005 Girls are bitches trust me I am one. But just take it one day at a time. If you've loved her your whole life its sad to say you'll never get over it. It may just get to a point where it doesnt hurt anymore to think about. nothing cures the first one like the next. Find a babe your all about, snog her and be obsessed with her. Then you can move on easier, yeah its rebound but we all do that dont we . have a positive attitude and act like you dont care on the holiday. BUt dont try hard and like talk about this amazing lay or something. Just be cool and dont care. good luck! pray lots
Candy Cane Posted July 7, 2005 Posted July 7, 2005 Yeah, that really bites. Have you tried boxing? Perhaps you need to pick up a hobby to get some of your aggression out about this deal and to get your mind off of it. Just a suggestion.
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