TBGoat Posted September 15, 2016 Posted September 15, 2016 Hello everyone! This is my first time posting here, although I've read many many posts before. Anyway I am having girl troubles. I'm 21, she's 20. We met at work, I work at a conscience store, she just transfered here. We go to college together and hit it off almost immediately! It started by exchanging numbers and so on. We text all the time and it's very playful I guess you could say. Well after a few days, she asks me if I wanna go to a party with her and I say sure okay (thinking nothing of it). We went to the party and I got plastered while she was pretty tipsy herself. Some guy was hitting on her and she wanted me to come save her from him. I didn't because I thought we were just friends. Anyway I go and sit on a couch and she comes and sits on my lap and we start making out. Caught me by surprise. Anyway fast forward a few days and we are still texting all the time, playfully, we kiss still and talk about stuff. I'm just not sure where she stands. We've openly talked about what this is and how it's gotta be professional at work and so on. But she said she doesn't want anything "complicated" what does that mean? She says she hates holding hands, yet she holds mine. Guys I'm just so lost here it's unreal. She thinks I'm a big question mark too. She can't tell what my intentions are, and I don't want to tell her out of awkwardness. P.s. I had broken up with my previous girlfriend a day after I met her, but that is completely unrelated. She thinks I could be a player because of that though.
LD1990 Posted September 15, 2016 Posted September 15, 2016 Holy **** man. She has made it pretty blatantly obvious she is attracted to you. As far as not wanting something complicated, that's likely just her way of saying she wants to keep it casual. You don't have to tell her your intentions. Invite her to do anything, I guarantee she says yes, initiate some physical contact, make out with her, go from there.
Author TBGoat Posted September 15, 2016 Author Posted September 15, 2016 Alright alright, I just wasn't sure because I really can't read her. I've just never had anything with a co-worker so I guess that's just throwing me off! Thanks!
BikerAccnt Posted September 15, 2016 Posted September 15, 2016 Alright alright, I just wasn't sure because I really can't read her. I've just never had anything with a co-worker so I guess that's just throwing me off! Thanks! She comes and sit on your lap, starts making out with you. She texts flirty messages, she holds your hands..... You better get new reading glasses, cause this girl liking you is an open book. Just keep things cordial and professional at work if you decide to date her. BUT, and it's a big but, dating a co-worker comes with it's own special set of problems and issues. So tread carefully. 1
JewelD Posted September 15, 2016 Posted September 15, 2016 She's 20. Your first date was a house party where got drunk and made out with you. 'I don't want anything complicated' means 'I want to do things with you but I don't want you to make a big deal when you see me messing around with other dudes".
Author TBGoat Posted September 15, 2016 Author Posted September 15, 2016 Okay cool. I just wasn't sure if she was feeling me or not. I don't really want anything more than what we got, considering I just got out of a relationship and I do not want to get into another one. Thanks everyone for the words of advice!
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