understand50 Posted September 15, 2016 Posted September 15, 2016 I do not think it can be really put in to words, but here's trying. When you feel that their comfort is more important then your own and you are willing to sacrifice for them, not necessary your life, but your time, money and your own comfort. When "us" is what is important, not just "me". When you know they feel the same way, and by their actions demonstrate this. When your children are born, and you first get to hold them, you have a such a overwhelming wave of love and emotion. You are willing to charge the gates of hell, if that is what it takes to protect them. I had the same feeling for my wife, before we married and still do. Not all the time, but the thought of not being "us" is something, I cannot contemplate. My two cents. 1
pteromom Posted September 15, 2016 Posted September 15, 2016 I beg to differ about this particular segment. Especially when you can be targeted by a group of people who feel you wronged them in some way when in reality, you got burned SO BADLY by the people you thought you could trust that you eventually gave up and refused to repair and/or replace those relationships. Ever. Burning those bridges may have been the best thing to ever happen to you, but now he's considered a bad candidate to date? How many times have two people in a mutual friend group gotten together and then at the breakup, lost most of the mutual friends due to the friends' perceived notion of having to navigate face-time with each individual separately, ultimately growing slowly apart? True. I am speaking about if a person has NO or very few solid real relationships. Of course we all have people we have left behind. And there are those who had really toxic parents too. You have to look at a whole picture - is this person capable of maintaining healthy relationships?
basil67 Posted September 16, 2016 Posted September 16, 2016 When the rose coloured glasses wore off and I still felt it was so very right. 2
OneLov Posted September 18, 2016 Posted September 18, 2016 I didn't believe it either. Thought it was all nonsense. The "one"? Lol. There's billions of people. How absurd, right? Then it happened to me.... Gravitational waves. I can't explain it. It's cosmic. You'll feel it. It's real. 1
mikeylo Posted September 18, 2016 Posted September 18, 2016 When even during the worst arguments / fights, I knew it wasn't over and would change my entire skin to make it right for her. I did that. But only for one woman. For others I gave 2 sh@ts and walked away without regrets. For her, I knew in my heart that if she walked away, I'll be doomed. In short , you just know in your heart.
Shepp Posted September 18, 2016 Posted September 18, 2016 Everytime I see her.. everyone else just fades away! From the very first time her eyes met mine in my high school classroom to down the pub on a Friday evening, to our wedding day, to when I walk through the door at the end of the day and she's covered in baby sick..... everyone else fades away, the world fades away, it's just me and her. It doesn't matter if we're on holiday in the Philippians or stuck in traffic on the M25, is she's there its a good day, simple as that! Theres this quote, goes like: "they told me to make her fall in love with me I needed to make her laugh, but everytime she laughs i'm the one that falls in love" SO so so so true! Even now, even years later, I fall over and over in love with her every day... she's not perfect, neither am I, but she's the one! 100% 1
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