Sanman023 Posted September 13, 2016 Posted September 13, 2016 Thanks all for the advice. Here is more background about the relationship. It started out as friends for a year and got serious for four months. During the 4 months, my divorce was filed. I told her if we're going to make this work, we will have to go very slow. She showed a lot of interest. Saying she had a crush on me when we met. Text me constantly. We got intimate every weekend. We have a lot in common and I wanted the best for her. She has a 12 year old boy and I get along with him. But we did have to sneak around and schedule times so that we could be alone. She called it off because I'm still going through a divorce and it's extremely difficult to get serious. She also wanted to set a good example for her kid that she shouldn't be dating a man that is still "married". I really want this relationship to work. I think the timing is off. I'm debating if no contact is the best way to go here. I just think she got tired of the sneaking around and doesn't feel like she's the #1 priority. No contact for two weeks so far. I'm alittle confused. My lifestyle should not change, I still go to the gym consistenty, coach kids basketball, a career, etc.
aloneinaz Posted September 13, 2016 Posted September 13, 2016 Why start a second thread when your other one is still going?!?
Author Sanman023 Posted September 13, 2016 Author Posted September 13, 2016 Sorry it wouldnt let me edit...
Author Sanman023 Posted September 13, 2016 Author Posted September 13, 2016 Clarification: my marriage was over all long time ago...emotional affair till the divorce was final
ExpatInItaly Posted September 14, 2016 Posted September 14, 2016 Why did you need to sneak around? From whom? I wouldn't want to be kept a secret either.
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