My ex is now with my friend

[Marco Pierre]

Im really confused as to how to handle my situation. My friend snaked in and is now with my ex. I found this all out whilst traveling europe. Now I am faced with the reality that after 4 months I must return to my small home town in Wales where they both live. There was a time not so long ago that I loved both of them. Now I dream about killing him, I know this is absurd. He is probably much better for her than I am, he is younger and probably more fun for her, less pressure from life etc.

But what do I do? Be happy for them? Im really trying but I have always loved this girl, even if its just platonic. She's an idiot but she is a great person to be around and I have not enjoyed sex or even female company since her.

Any advice would be greatly appriciated as I am struggling here. Thanks

[Bialy]

Any advice would be greatly appriciated as I am struggling here. Thanks

 

You have every right to be confused and upset at this situation. For one, it's not like you live in a big city where you won't bump into them. All of you live in a small town! The least your friend could have done was given you the heads up to let you know what was going on. Even then, I don't know if that would have made things better.

 

Is there any way to avoid them completely or is the town so small you'd still see them around often?

 

Really sorry you're going through this.

[Marco Pierre]

Thanks for your reply.

 

Yes I can avoid them I am moving back to Wales but I plan to leave for Germany as soon as possible where I have a job and a friends place I can stay at.

 

Yes that was my first thoughts really, how cowardly he was not to just send a message to explain they had fallen for each other or whatever, but your right that probably wouldn't of made it any easier to understand.

 

I really want to contact her. I don't know why. Right now I am not angry, or jealous or any of those emotions, I just feel sick thinking about it. I want to contact her just to bull**** really, I wouldn't even know what to say but I have this very strong urge to talk to her. I don't want to talk about this situation, I don't want to fight. This is a bad idea I know, I know I should just move on and try my best to forget about her and never look back, but this **** isnt easy!