HumanMachine Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 Number deleted No way of contacting her I've been here before with other people, it doesn't get any easier 2
Zahara Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 It does get easier but you first have go through the pain to get past it. 4
Satu Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 Don't count the days. It makes them longer. Take care. 3
aloneinaz Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 Whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger! Good job deleting the number/means to contact her. You've accomplished the hardest step. 3
Blanco Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 Hopefully you've also blocked it, otherwise deleting the number is merely symbolic. 2
Author HumanMachine Posted September 12, 2016 Author Posted September 12, 2016 Hopefully you've also blocked it, otherwise deleting the number is merely symbolic. She won't contact me for sure. We were best friends for years, decided to try fwb, i fell for her, she wanted someone else
Thistooshallpass21 Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 First day is the hardest, as the days progress it gets easier, but don't think about the days. Focus on yourself and doing things that you enjoy, try some new things. It's very hard to not think about the days since your last contact, trust me I know, I am 8 months into break up and no contact, there are absolutely still days I think about it, but the days I don't are the best days. You can in fact do this and remember you are not alone in this process. 1
Zahara Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 She won't contact me for sure That's what we all say. Secretly we hope that they will. That's why we keep the little window open. 3
Author HumanMachine Posted September 12, 2016 Author Posted September 12, 2016 That's what we all say. Secretly we hope that they will. That's why we keep the little window open. Unfortunately it's too late now as i have deleted her number and have absolutely no other way of contacting her.
Zahara Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 Unfortunately it's too late now as i have deleted her number and have absolutely no other way of contacting her. If you know her number by heart, then block her. 1
Frozensushi Posted September 13, 2016 Posted September 13, 2016 Unfortunately it's too late now as i have deleted her number and have absolutely no other way of contacting her. I made this mistake during one of the breakups I had with my Ex. Of course, after weeks went by I got a text from an unknown number tossing me breadcrumbs. What do you think happened? I texted back and the cycle repeated.
Author HumanMachine Posted September 13, 2016 Author Posted September 13, 2016 If you know her number by heart, then block her. I don't All i can do is wait until she contacts me then block it. I'm 100% sure she won't though, we ended whatever we had very badly.
Author HumanMachine Posted September 13, 2016 Author Posted September 13, 2016 It's been over 24 hours since we last spoke Damn it's hard If i had her number i would've definetely cracked by now
gracey123 Posted September 13, 2016 Posted September 13, 2016 I'm in the situation currently myself with breaking NC. It's just messing with my head and emotions, I hope NC works out for you, I wish I could be so strong
Author HumanMachine Posted September 13, 2016 Author Posted September 13, 2016 I'm in the situation currently myself with breaking NC. It's just messing with my head and emotions, I hope NC works out for you, I wish I could be so strong Stay strong grace remember nothing comes good of breaking nc 1
gracey123 Posted September 13, 2016 Posted September 13, 2016 Stay strong grace remember nothing comes good of breaking nc I'm trying to keep that in mind haha, I wish we could forget people so easily
Author HumanMachine Posted September 15, 2016 Author Posted September 15, 2016 She messaged me. She was being bullied at work and apparently had no one else to talk to. I gave her advice on what to do. She didn't even thank me for what I said! Unbelievable. Oh well the message took me 30 secs to write. Life goes on.
LD1990 Posted September 15, 2016 Posted September 15, 2016 So much for her 100% not contacting you. Hopefully you blocked her this time. If not she'll just keep contacting you whenever she needs someone to kiss her ass and make her feel better about whatever petty issue she's having. 1
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