tjb Posted July 6, 2005 Posted July 6, 2005 my girlfriend and i have been going out for 1 year and 5 months, and living together since november. a couple days ago out of the blue she told me that she wants to experience more and be alone for awhile. we are a young couple and have been with few people in our past and she wants to date with different people. we have been talking about his lots and i really dont want to let her go when she told me the news i couldnt stop crying, i feel im nothing without her and that we need to work this out. I feel i need to find a way to sweep her off her feet and remind her why she loves me as much as i love her. I agreed with her and told her that we should take a break for a little while but just not now it would be to hard on me and eventually her. please guys i need some advice to get her back and no one tell me to give up! thank you!
lvgrl Posted July 6, 2005 Posted July 6, 2005 umm..rent a hotel room and fill it with candles, just get the tea lights they are cheap and last about an hour on each one, get some roses or rose peddles and do your magic..But dont just go the effort to try to win her back, just let your heart speak to her, write her a letter or a poem and read it to her... Yeah I dont know..but thats an idea?
Enema Posted July 7, 2005 Posted July 7, 2005 I know you said you didn't want to hear this, but, "Give Up". It's extremely difficult to break up with someone, for her to take that step and do it, you can be sure she's made her mind up. The "taking a break" thing can be a few things: She may be trying to avoid a big confrontation but really wants to break up.She wants to see what else she can get and keep you as a Backup Plan.She may feel that you're smothering her and generally wants some space I've never seen or been involved in "taking a break" that ended with the couple getting back together. Plenty of fish my friend.
VirginiaBob Posted July 7, 2005 Posted July 7, 2005 "I've never seen or been involved in "taking a break" that ended with the couple getting back together." so true. sorry to say this relationship is over. move on.
Tony427 Posted July 7, 2005 Posted July 7, 2005 She may be trying to avoid a big confrontation but really wants to break up. She wants to see what else she can get and keep you as a Backup Plan. She may feel that you're smothering her and generally wants some space Unless you're smothering her then I say its probably over. If she wants to break up there is not much you can do if she's already made up her mind and if she wants you as a backup plan I say YOU should break it off. Nobody deserves to be a "backup" plan, you should be with someone who considers you their "first and only" plan.
tjb Posted July 7, 2005 Posted July 7, 2005 we are figuring something out, we are just to close to eachother to end what we have, its really hard on me cause she is really all i got out where i live and i dont wanna lose that, i told here just to wait and that there is a better time and place to do this but we are still talkin ill keep you guys informed
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