Virgogirl77 Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 Ok, so this dude that I met almost 2 months ago has been hot/cold for a few weeks. He went away for Labor Day weekend to attend a sporting event. I text him that weekend to wish him luck and he responds thanking me. So, days pass, and I make every effort to forget him and make NO further contact. He texts me this past Friday as is nothing and inquires how I am doing! I text back today and respond that I am doing well and wish him the same. Send him a pic of a venue I am at with friends and he responds nicely. But-then he says "Very nice Lady." WT How do you respond to that? Why did this dude text in the first place? 1
smackie9 Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 Block/delete/move on. If you get hot/cold, you must eject them. 5
Author Virgogirl77 Posted September 12, 2016 Author Posted September 12, 2016 Yes, I am no fool. Will no longer play this game. Hope he leaves me alone. 2
Ami1uwant Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 I don't have enough to evaluate thus... He went out of town on vacation so you didn't have much contact ---this is typical early on Are you blaming hot snd fold because he is traveling? Eat about when he was in town? 1
Author Virgogirl77 Posted September 12, 2016 Author Posted September 12, 2016 The weekend before LDay I went out of town, and we texted back and forth. He was very nice and said we would chat when I returned. Ok, I get back and I hear nothing. I text him and he tells me he was finishing a report for work and will be attending a sporting event, which he had mentioned in the past, during LDay weekend. So-he returns and I hear nothing until this past Friday! 1
Satu Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 I would follow smackie9's advice if I were you. Take care. 2
leogirl876 Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 If you met him 2 months ago and he's hot & cold, you need to drop him, he's either not that into you and just a lame douche bag who has no clue about human relations. Anytime a guy is hot & cold, it's taken me many years to learn this, but it's because he's not that into you. I used to think guys that were hot & cold were playing games or were players or something like that, I now know, they just weren't that into me. And if a guy isn't that into me, I then think there's got to be something majorly wrong with his brain and I don't wanna even waste my precious thoughts on a loser like that! Get that mentality, and your viewpoint will change! 2
Lois_Griffin Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 Texting is about is impersonal as it gets. You're pen pals and nothing more. 2
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