RecordProducer Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale baby u ain't seen nuthin' yet Oh, and you've seen a lot cuz you've seen a three-figure number of clits that came three times in a row?
RecordProducer Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 Originally posted by XNemesisX 1. So you are ready to settle down at 19?! You sure about that? Because someone in his 30s will be more serious about committing than a young person. 2. He must be awfully good looking and packing something great for you to overlook his 3 ex-wives, 5 kids, and his alleged 500+ sex partners. 3. Sorry, I don't understand what you would see in him unless there is something wrong with you or you are unattractive. 1. Don't be so sure about it! Men in their 30s or 40s can be equally unserious about relationships as those in their 20s. Moreover, they've burned in love before and know the catch 22 already. 2. That I believe. 3. That I don't believe. Guys like him are usually attracted to good-looking girls.
shygurl Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 Originally posted by Syncerity g...hell i know damn 16yr olds working for big corporations so just cause im 19 doesnt mean i dont know anything about life or the real world... Working part-time after school in the mail room or emptying the trash cans because Daddy's the CEO and got him the job doesn't exactly count. i see that im not really bothered bythe sex partners, because he's not with them now So if the number of his past sex partners was so inconsequential/irrelevant, why did you even ask in the first place? Why would it even matter to you if the past is the past? ...folks on here are so hypocritical i swear, you live in closed boxes must be..its not IMPOSSIBLE for someone to sleep with 500+ women in 4yrs You seem to have this sense of being proud that he's been the village bicycle (everybody got a ride) - most woman in her right mind would be cringing to learn their guy SUPPOSEDLY slept with 500 women. However, most women would think the guy was full of major sh*t and they'd be turned off by the fact that he'd tell such tall tales to begin with. Most truly mature 34 yr old men wouldn't go bragging about shagging an entire school - not if they've grown up since then. Sorry, you seem very naive. I notice you conveniently didn't bother to answer any of the questions I'd asked. That's interesting. I'd asked you if he's a deadbeat Dad or does he pay proper child support to his *5* children and spend a lot of quality time with all of these children he helped to bring into the world? Or is he one of those scrubs on Jerry Springer who's got a half dozen kids by many different women and his exes are dragging him onto the show to shame him for being a deadbeat? If you were as mature and wise as you say you are, you would be very concerned about a man who's been married 3 times. That's fine to say a person's past is the past but past behavior is a great predictor of future behavior. If he's never dealt with the issues that contributed to the demise of his past 3 marriages, he's sure to repeat them in the future. The odds are good he's got at least one sexually transmitted disease..................if his dick's been around the block like he claims. Do you want to contract HIV and die young? Do you want to get Herpes and have to live with that forever? Do you want to get Pelvic Inflammatory Disease and end up never being able to have children? If he was such a slut in school, chances are he's remained a slut all these years.................. Man, you're so naive, I feel sorry for you. You can diss XNemesisX all you want but she is very articulate, mature, grounded, humble and she has a good head on her shoulders.
RecordProducer Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 I just thought of something. If the I-screwed-496-girls story is true (let's assume it is), then he did every single girl in the school that wanted him. Supposedly there were only two guys in the school and both were cute. All the 496 girls were "easy" and didn't resist him (or all of them fell in love with him). So no girl got out of a such a girly school as a virgin cuz they all slept with two guys. And how picky he was! He didn't do the cleaning ladies, but only the young girls! Every single girl in the school: cute, ugly, short, tall, fat, slim, dumb, smart... they were all good for him. And finally, he somehow counted them. I mean I understand he knew how many students attended that school, but he also knew that he slept with ALL of them. How did he keep track? Did he go in alphabetic order or was he eliminating class by class?
Author Syncerity Posted July 8, 2005 Author Posted July 8, 2005 Originally posted by shygurl Working part-time after school in the mail room or emptying the trash cans because Daddy's the CEO and got him the job doesn't exactly count. So if the number of his past sex partners was so inconsequential/irrelevant, why did you even ask in the first place? Why would it even matter to you if the past is the past? You seem to have this sense of being proud that he's been the village bicycle (everybody got a ride) - most woman in her right mind would be cringing to learn their guy SUPPOSEDLY slept with 500 women. However, most women would think the guy was full of major sh*t and they'd be turned off by the fact that he'd tell such tall tales to begin with. Most truly mature 34 yr old men wouldn't go bragging about shagging an entire school - not if they've grown up since then. Sorry, you seem very naive. I notice you conveniently didn't bother to answer any of the questions I'd asked. That's interesting. I'd asked you if he's a deadbeat Dad or does he pay proper child support to his *5* children and spend a lot of quality time with all of these children he helped to bring into the world? Or is he one of those scrubs on Jerry Springer who's got a half dozen kids by many different women and his exes are dragging him onto the show to shame him for being a deadbeat? If you were as mature and wise as you say you are, you would be very concerned about a man who's been married 3 times. That's fine to say a person's past is the past but past behavior is a great predictor of future behavior. If he's never dealt with the issues that contributed to the demise of his past 3 marriages, he's sure to repeat them in the future. The odds are good he's got at least one sexually transmitted disease..................if his dick's been around the block like he claims. Do you want to contract HIV and die young? Do you want to get Herpes and have to live with that forever? Do you want to get Pelvic Inflammatory Disease and end up never being able to have children? If he was such a slut in school, chances are he's remained a slut all these years.................. Man, you're so naive, I feel sorry for you. You can diss XNemesisX all you want but she is very articulate, mature, grounded, humble and she has a good head on her shoulders. first off i didnt worry about replying to your post, because it wasnt on my mind at the time..i saw nemisis and wanted to address some things to her...naive to you, ok yea thats me..and its not like i said i was going to sleep with dude, or be wife number four..AND I posted this at first about the number of women he slept with because i was in shock at the moment..now im jus like oh well aint nothin i can do about that...and for the 16yr old working parttime in the mailroom No...he's not doing that...he writes programs and scripts to make hard long and tedious procedures go into a script that shortens it up...bet he makes more in one paycheck than you have n your entire life... and no i feel sorry for you, because you seem like a bitch..but then again..thats how most females "not all"are, and thats why i avoid them at all cost
Kat Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 I had someone tell me that I was the 23rd person they slept with. If someone wants to brag about something like that, or worse, lie, then I think you should stay clear of someone with that kind of thinking
shygurl Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 Originally posted by Syncerity first off i didnt worry about replying to your post, because it wasnt on my mind at the time..i saw nemisis and wanted to address some things to her...naive to you, ok yea thats me..and its not like i said i was going to sleep with dude, or be wife number four..AND I posted this at first about the number of women he slept with because i was in shock at the moment..now im jus like oh well aint nothin i can do about that...and for the 16yr old working parttime in the mailroom No...he's not doing that...he writes programs and scripts to make hard long and tedious procedures go into a script that shortens it up...bet he makes more in one paycheck than you have n your entire life... and no i feel sorry for you, because you seem like a bitch..but then again..thats how most females "not all"are, and thats why i avoid them at all cost Thanks for proving my point! ;-)
SassyBug Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 Did you ask him about STD's? How about sexual addiction? Sounds like trouble But forewarned is forearmed... I don't think he slept with 500 girls. Maybe he's bragging Out of the 500 girls ....some of them could have been gay ....some of them could have stayed virgins ....some of them could have been unattractive ....girls talk and the word would have gotten around that he's a player ....besides do you really think he'd be able to do all that in the time he was there? he's pulling your leg I think just be careful 'cuz players know the game and they usually are CHARMING
Zaira Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 I think he's telling you stories. All girls at the SAME school? NO way! Unless it was a "porn school". It just wouldn't happen. Women talk, and not all women are that stupid. My ex told me that he lied to his previous girlfriends about the number of people he'd slept with, because he thought it would make him look more experienced and enticing if they thought he knew what he was doing
Kat Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 Originally posted by ~Zaira~ My ex told me that he lied to his previous girlfriends about the number of people he'd slept with, because he thought it would make him look more experienced and enticing if they thought he knew what he was doing Sounds like he doesn't have the maturity to have sex, let alone be in a relationship
Zaira Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 Originally posted by Kat Sounds like he doesn't have the maturity to have sex, let alone be in a relationship Didn't have. He was a teenager (years before we were together), and I think most teenage boys like to exaggerate
clandestinidad Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 My goodness this thread has gotten heated! LOL I think people here are just trying to let you know, from our experiences and those of people we know, that there are certain huge red flags that indicate serious trouble. Mult. marriages in a short time frame usually mean that HE's the problem. Whether it be cheating or some other problem. The chances of such a 'wonderful' perfect guy SOMEhow ending up w/ these 'horrible' women over and over are EXTREMELY slim, if not impossible! It sounds more like he's figured out how to ACT wonderful, suck gullible people in, and then f@ck it up somehow....and apparently f@ck it up SO bad that they all get divorced! (also, since he apparently bends the truth, you might consider the possibility that he's been married more than that) The 5 kids...yeah, thats a lot...but I guess not that many when youve been married 3/4 times! I wish you could ask those kids what they really think of him. Maybe you should find out if he's even allowed to see them, and if not then STAY AWAY from him. And I agree that you should find out if/how he pays for them. So...the 500+ people he's slept with....God thats a lot of shallow pointless [email protected] I certainly hope its nowhere near that many b/c that is a serious problem that NEVER EVER goes away. Much like an alcoholic or drug addict or smoker, people w/ sex problems deal with it every day of their lives....and unlike those addictions aforementioned, a sex addict doesnt usually stay away from it for very long, and it usually gets more and more disturbing. BTW, pedophiles rapists and other people like that know how to lie and act like they are a perfect member of society. So, my point is, f@ck1n9 anywhere near that many people means you have SOME sort of disturbing problem, and it wont ever go away Anyway, despite what you think right now, we are trying to inform you that these ENORMOUS red flags mean that this guy does NOT have good character. He hasnt had good character for the last what, 20 or more years?!?! Its not like he just made little mistakes that young guys do...he has shown a definate PATTERN of: disregard for others, ruins relationships in one way or another, is careless & harmful with himself and others, ETC ETC....these arent old problems!!! Theyre still happening!! And unfortunately, you nor anyone else will ever be able to "SAVE" him and fix him, and correct him, and bring him to the light.....he's one of those manipulative horrible people that destroys lives
Author Syncerity Posted July 8, 2005 Author Posted July 8, 2005 Originally posted by shygurl Thanks for proving my point! ;-) no, thank you for proving my point, and making me further see why i dont really care for females
watermeloncandy Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 it's up to you. if you could care less about this then stay with him. but if your intuition is telling you something different - whether it's that he's lying about the 500 girls, whether it's true and sickens you, or whatever, then move on. that feeling in the pit of your stomach that says 'something's not right' won't go away and will bother you throughout the relationship. and really, you are young - there are a whole slew of wonderful guys out there that won't have slept with that many women, or won't lie about having slept with that many women. one thing that has popped into my mind, and maybe someone else has already mentioned this is that that 496 was only in highschool -how many has he had SINCE then? did he use condoms every single time? if you do decide to stick with him, tell him he's gotta go get checked for STD's (ALLLLL of them that can be tested for) - he should not get offended with this and should understand your concern. If he won't do it, then dump him. No reason to put your life at risk. also, i know this is a sticky issue, but age gaps like that are generally VERY difficult in a relationship. ultimately the decision is yours, but most people here look like they are trying to help you based on their life experiences - the older you are, the wiser you get - it's true (well, for MOST people anyways!)
TUDOR Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 Originally posted by lvgrly blah blah blah....Beer anyone??? It's not even noon yet....hell ya I want one. This seems to be a theme with you lvgrly the last couple of days! I like it!
crazy_grl Posted July 9, 2005 Posted July 9, 2005 Originally posted by Syncerity No...he's not doing that...he writes programs and scripts to make hard long and tedious procedures go into a script that shortens it up...bet he makes more in one paycheck than you have n your entire life... and no i feel sorry for you, because you seem like a bitch..but then again..thats how most females "not all"are, and thats why i avoid them at all cost Now you've gone and proven to all us dolts how mature you are. You, naive and immature? What were we thinking?
crazy_grl Posted July 9, 2005 Posted July 9, 2005 no, thank you for proving my point, and making me further see why i dont really care for females Nope. You don't sound like any other 19 yr old girl I've ever met.
d'Arthez Posted July 9, 2005 Posted July 9, 2005 Star Gazer: Everyone thinks they are smart. Except the really smart people. Sadly this thread is proving this.
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