Should I move on already?

[iphone_user1]

Hey

 

-Met a girl online, she seemed really interested and she asked me out on wednesday after texting a few days, but I couldn't that day, so we agreed on thursday night.

 

-Thursday night comes, we met, had some drinks and something to eat, she paid for the meal and I paid for the drinks.

 

-Cool conversation, visited a couple of bars and then food. Body language was cool and comfortable, but not enough for a kiss in my opinion.

 

-5 hours later she has to go, gets home and texts "I got home safe :)", then I replied "okay cool".

 

So that was it LOL no text or phonecall so far. Is that low interest and I better move on?

 

She's 25, outgoing sociable type.

Edited September 11, 2016 by iphone_user1

[smackie9]

ask her out yet???

[CarrieT]

Is there a reason you wouldn't want a second date?

 

Why don't you ask her?

[LD1990]

Flip it around and look at it from her perspective.

 

-She asked you out.

-She paid for the food, you got the drinks.

-You didn't kiss her.

-She tells you she got home, you say "okay cool," and she hasn't heard from you since.

 

She may be wondering if you're interested. Take action, man, don't wait around for her to make every move.

[Redhead14]

Hey

 

-Met a girl online, she seemed really interested and she asked me out on wednesday after texting a few days, but I couldn't that day, so we agreed on thursday night.

 

-Thursday night comes, we met, had some drinks and something to eat, she paid for the meal and I paid for the drinks.

 

-Cool conversation, visited a couple of bars and then food. Body language was cool and comfortable, but not enough for a kiss in my opinion.

 

-5 hours later she has to go, gets home and texts "I got home safe :)", then I replied "okay cool".

 

So that was it LOL no text or phonecall so far. Is that low interest and I better move on?

 

She's 25, outgoing sociable type.

 

no text or phonecall so far. Is that low interest and I better move on? -- She's probably asking the same question . . .

 

Like it or not, it's up to you to keep the ball rolling for a few dates, dude. She did let you know she was home safe. That's SOP (standard operating procedure). Most women prefer to let the man lead in the very beginning. So, if you liked her enough and she seemed to have a good time, send her a good morning text the next day and let her reply. If she replies, call her that night and ask her for another date a few days from now PLAIN and SIMPLE.

[joseb]

Why is it up to her to chase you?

 

If you like her then ask her out again.

[smackie9]

Ladies pay attention to this....the roles are reversed and see what the responses are? Reciprocation is key.....it shouldn't matter if you are male or female, you don't just sit there and expect them to do all the work.

[iphone_user1]

OK, I'm just rusty at dating seriously, it's been years after fwb with every girl LOL I talked to her in the morning and she still seemed pretty cool, gonna ask her out now.