Persiancat Posted September 11, 2016 Posted September 11, 2016 I've heard this many times from my friends That I'm a difficult person, not like every other girl, complicated person, etc etc. I'm difficult to get close to, make plans with, hard to read blabla. Yet somehow they stick around despite all of it. If I'm so difficult why don't they just drop me. 1
Nowty V Posted September 11, 2016 Posted September 11, 2016 Maybe because they all want to be you. They may see an inner confidence that allows you to be ... well, you They obviously want more of you than you are prepared to give. These days it's easy to mask insecurities by wearing the right brand of clothes, shoes, going to the right places, saying the right phrases and yet have no individuality or sense of self at all. 2
Shanex Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 Because they are still emotionally attached to you. 1
Redhead14 Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 I've heard this many times from my friends That I'm a difficult person, not like every other girl, complicated person, etc etc. I'm difficult to get close to, make plans with, hard to read blabla. Yet somehow they stick around despite all of it. If I'm so difficult why don't they just drop me. Because they are your FRIENDS . . . who love you just the way you are and/or have not reached the maximum limit of their ability to tolerate you and they don't have to live with you. I have one friend, in particular, who is a difficult, opinionated, closed off person, yet I find her interesting enough to talk to because she is intelligent, has a good sense of humor and leads an interesting life and so I see her once in a while for lunch, talk on the phone now and again. I would never set up a male friend with her because . . . she's a difficult, opinionated, closed off person who would not make a good relationship partner. She is a good person, a nice person but she would be very difficult to live with. 2
Satu Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 snip If I'm so difficult why don't they just drop me. If you really were that difficult, they would. That means that you aren't really that difficult. 3
bubbaganoosh Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 For now but don't let it go to your head or you will lose them and then you will know what they mean.
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