tynoe93 Posted September 11, 2016 Posted September 11, 2016 (edited) To be frank with you i deeply love you from the bottom of ma heart, i gave maself a test by traveling all the way from cape town to midrand to meet coz i believe where love is theres always a way nomatter how miles away we are from each ada. I found malove, the man that fulfil ma heart, ties a smile around ma face, that brings out the best in me, who loves me for who am nd not only just me with the princes of ma heart "Angella". I have longed for this for so long, i found that man in YOU .i just wish we feel the same way nd in this for the rite reasons. I may fight wit you, argue, hate you sometimes, nd dont wish to talk, its becoz im afraid to LOSE you. Through it all at the moment im waitin nd expectin an rejection from you due to my health, we cant denie i have TB. I have finaly accepted it maself nd willing to fight it with evry drop of ma breath. But we dont have to do it together, you young, fresh, determinded, full of passion nd ambition, goals, you better off witout me. You have a greate future ahead you. Myb in there other life, we cud meet again, im sure our hearts wil find each other again. Yours truely . What Should I Do I Love Her Edited September 11, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator removed name ~T 1
ExpatInItaly Posted September 11, 2016 Posted September 11, 2016 I can hardly decipher that. She has TB? As in tuberculosis? Her message is difficult to understand. But it's a break-up text. That much I got. 1
Sunnymae Posted September 11, 2016 Posted September 11, 2016 TB is curable. So let her know your feelings about her. Reassuring her that her disease isn't fatal. She might need time away to get better. Maybe reassure her that you'll always be there for her, assuming that's how you feel, at the same time you'll honor her wishes if that's what she really wants. Sounds like she thinks she'll be a burden on you. I'd research TB if I were you, then decide based on how much of an affect it'll have on your future, and your feeling for her. Remember she's going through a lot right now, so she's probably feeling very vulnerable, be compassionate with your words. 1
ExpatInItaly Posted September 11, 2016 Posted September 11, 2016 I have had TB myself, as a small child. It is no light matter. I spent months in the hospital and several family members also contracted it. Have you met her in person? How long have you been together? If you can provide some context, this message might make more sense. 1
Satu Posted September 11, 2016 Posted September 11, 2016 (edited) TB is curable. So let her know your feelings about her. Reassuring her that *her disease isn't fatal. She might need time away to get better. Maybe reassure her that you'll always be there for her, assuming that's how you feel, at the same time you'll honor her wishes if that's what she really wants. Sounds like she thinks she'll be a burden on you. I'd research TB if I were you, then decide based on how much of an affect it'll have on your future, and your feeling for her. Remember she's going through a lot right now, so she's probably feeling very vulnerable, be compassionate with your words. TB can be fatal. I've had it twice, so I know about it. About 1.5 million people die from TB every year, and the numbers are rising. Edited September 11, 2016 by Satu 3
ExpatInItaly Posted September 11, 2016 Posted September 11, 2016 TB can be fatal. I've had it twice, so I know about it. About 1.5 million people die from TB every year, and the numbers are rising. This. It can and does kill many people. I was among the lucky. 1
elaine567 Posted September 11, 2016 Posted September 11, 2016 Drug resistance can be a big problem for those infected with TB. Resistant strains are on the increase globally. The availability of specialist services to deal with that, can influence the outcome. "Drug-resistant TB is more difficult and costly to treat, and more often fatal," said Tracy Dalton, the study's lead author. "Internationally, it is particularly worrisome in areas with fewer resources and less access to effective therapies. As more individuals are diagnosed with, and treated for, drug-resistant TB, more resistance to second-line drugs is expected to emerge." 1
Satu Posted September 11, 2016 Posted September 11, 2016 I think it would be best to just send her a get well soon card, and then leave her in peace.
Author tynoe93 Posted September 11, 2016 Author Posted September 11, 2016 Thank You all for your replies and views @ ExpatInItaly We've been together for 6 months almost getting to our 7th.Shes a bit older tho difference of 6years between us and has a beautiful daughter I cherish. We were actually together just a week ago before she got admitted and everything was just perfect we had a nice time. @Sunnymae I actually researched about it wen she told me about it and I love her nomatter what situation may arise just like now.i have been telling her that because she assumes because this is happening I'll leave but I'm in this with her, even tho there's distance its gonna be hard I believe in us I actually called her and we talked and told me she really wanted to see if I know what I want, says she doesn't have any doubts about us and wants us to work questions I asked her Just Worried the effect it might have on her the option we have available 1
Sunnymae Posted September 12, 2016 Posted September 12, 2016 Just Worried the effect it might have on her the option we have available Do you mean the effect the disease might have on her? I'm sure someone else would be obliged to answer. Take care.
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