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Regret a decision I made


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I'm 17 in high school, about a year ago I met this girl and we instantly clicked. We became pretty close and would hang out a lot, and eventually told each other we like one another. We never really had the boyfriend girlfriend name tag, but we belonged to one another. Over the summer I decided to tell her I just wanted us to be friends and she seemed okay with it. But after seeing her around more and talking to her more I realize I don't just want us to be friends but I don't know how to go about it at this point. She doesn't seem interested in me anymore, she used to text first a lot and keep the conversations going, but we barely talk anymore. When I asked her how she felt about the whole "being friends thing", she said she was fine with it and that she felt we were just looking for something that never was. Homecoming is around the corner as well and I couldn't imagine taking anyone but her.

 

What should I do?

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Tell her the title of your thread and that you would like to be more then friends. The only way to know what she's thinking is to put yourself out there. Better do it soon or she will permanently keep you in the friends zone...as you initially requested.

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You friend zoned her when she, maybe, wanted more. It's normally the other way round, where the guy will get friend zoned and stay in there thinking it will lead to something else. It never does and he walks, leaving the girl wondering where he buddy went. I reckon all you can is jump in there and explain how you now feel. You may have left it too late or pushed her too far away, but only by talking to her will you know. I get how this happened as I've experience falling for people I thought were just friends. Over time, people just grow on you and start to become more. You start to see them in a new light and that in turn makes them so attractive to you, both mentally and physically. They become someone you think about every day and no longer want as just a friend.

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Tell her how you feel and aske her to go to homecoming together.

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Why exactly did you choose to friendzone her? You didn't really say.

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