C89tga Posted September 11, 2016 Posted September 11, 2016 Some background info first. I meet this girl through school, she's a few years younger than me, and been getting to know each other for several months now. She's very shy/reserved so it took time for her to open up and talk to. We talk and hang out quite often. We have many similar interests so no problem there. Where the problem is I can not tell at all if she truly has feelings for me or not. But here's the many clues I pick up on. She has mentioned on more than one occasion that her mom(which I've met) asks where I'm at or what I'm up or why I'm not around. I've also asked, as I'm trying to guage her interest, if she cares if I hang with other girls over her, and that would mean she would have less time to see me and she says she doesn't want me doing that. She always laughs at what I say, plays with her hair, takes a lot of interest in what I say ect ect. I haven't made a move because I don't want to screw things up if she actually doesn't feel what I do. There's also the problem that she's on 2 different occasions "talked" to other guys but didn't like how they were and stopped talking to them. So if she actually liked me, wouldn't she rather "talk" to me over them? Is she just testing her own feelings or waiting/wanting for me to make a move?? There's more I can add but I don't want to type a novel. Any help would be great.
spiderowl Posted September 11, 2016 Posted September 11, 2016 I get the impression she likes you. If she doesn't want you hanging around with other girls, that's a strong signal to you that she has become attached. Perhaps if you say more to her about how you feel about her, that will give her the confidence to be more open too.
Author C89tga Posted September 11, 2016 Author Posted September 11, 2016 I get the impression she likes you. If she doesn't want you hanging around with other girls, that's a strong signal to you that she has become attached. Perhaps if you say more to her about how you feel about her, that will give her the confidence to be more open too. So what's the deal with the other guys? She mentioned them to me, so why would she tell me?
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