katiegrl Posted September 16, 2016 Posted September 16, 2016 (edited) So, a little update. She got back to me the next day, I guess she had gone camping and she replied with a very positive response. Finally after a little chatting, I got the courage to ask her out for a second date. Well, I totally got rejected. She wrote me two long paragraphs telling me that she thought I was so wonderful and had an amazing time but that she had some concerns. She then went on to say how she felt I wanted something serious and she does too, eventually, but is not ready for that. She said she respected my values and needs and doesn't want to run into trouble later down the line. I'm actually not looking for anything serious and I even if I was I feel she sort of jumped the gun a little - because it was just one date. I wasn't even thinking that far ahead. Anyway, I have no idea how she got that impression but I replied explains to her that yes, I do eventually, but I was just having fun and enjoyed her company and that I was sorry if I have her that impression. Then she replies, "oh well the was the impression I got, but that's good to know! And also added "but I also felt our lifestyles aren't in line with each other, but you're so awesome and I had such a good time." I played it cool and said "yeah, I did too. I think you're great. But no worries." Bolded.... oh good lord you had ONE date and she texts you all that? I am sure there was more too since you said it was two long paragraphs. Anyway, what a bunch of unnecessary emotional sturm and drang.... jesus. Women really need to put a lid on it sometimes and I am a woman! But again after only one date that was a bit much. After one or two dates, all that needed to be said "It was fun meeting but not feeling enough chemistry to pursue further. Take care." Or the like. Don't feel defeated OP, she sounds like a very high drama girl and me thinks you dodged a bullet. Edited September 16, 2016 by katiegrl 1
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