tynoe93 Posted September 10, 2016 Posted September 10, 2016 Hie My Girl isn't feeling so well for the past two months now. She was admitted to hospital just 3days after we spent a whole week together to date it's been a week she's been in hospital.Doctors said she has TB and she's being transfered to another hospital. 2dae is the 1st time we speaking since she was admitted because her mom had her phone all this time took it home. it seems I'm the one on the receiving end of her pain anger she is feeling.been trying to encourage her but my words keep getting thrown back at me. She told me I shouldnt act as if I want to be with her in this and it's her body.i asked to call her and she says she doesn't want to talk and just said okay I don't know what to do I know she's hurting and is very angry and stubborn at the same time does she need space or for me to keep trying or what 1
smackie9 Posted September 10, 2016 Posted September 10, 2016 When people are sick, they are in no mood to be around others because they are frustrated and uncomfortable. Maybe send her a thoughtful card, some flowers, or something that will bring some normalcy....like a phone. I suspect she is feeling isolated and bored out of her mind. 1
Author tynoe93 Posted September 10, 2016 Author Posted September 10, 2016 (edited) thanks smackie9 we I'm a long distance relationship for now,so trying to be there but texting or calling is the only way I can be there for now but it seems maybe she doesn't want to talk to me like im the one to blame which leaves me confused I do not know what to do exactly I know she's in pain vulnerable confused because of what'd happening and as her partner I need to be there for her but with the way she is or acting I do not know what to do Edited September 10, 2016 by tynoe93 1
smackie9 Posted September 10, 2016 Posted September 10, 2016 Well she's probably wishing you were there plus feeling out of sorts with all that is happening is adding more stress. Like I said, send her something that would make her feel special/more comfortable. 1
Gaeta Posted September 10, 2016 Posted September 10, 2016 This relationship was already on the rock. Your last tread dated a month ago indicates a woman that is about to leave the relationship. You have been dating 6-7 months and only visited a couple of times. This relationship isn't viable can you see it now? Majority of women that would end up at the hospital would want their BF right next to them. I don't know why you keep hanging on to this. 1
Satu Posted September 10, 2016 Posted September 10, 2016 (edited) I've had TB twice; treatment for the second time ended in March, and I'm now free of it. You can't even begin to imagine how ill she is. Its like a living death. Just leave her to go through the very unpleasant treatment for now. Take care. Edited September 10, 2016 by Satu
BaileyB Posted September 10, 2016 Posted September 10, 2016 Have you seen her recently? In which case, you should get yourself tested. TB is really contagious. 1
Satu Posted September 10, 2016 Posted September 10, 2016 Just for anyone who'd like to know more: "Tuberculosis (TB) is caused by a type of bacterium called Mycobacterium tuberculosis. The condition is spread when a person with an active TB infection in their lungs coughs or sneezes and someone else inhales the expelled droplets, which contain TB bacteria. Although it is spread in a similar way to a cold or the flu, TB is not as contagious. You would usually have to spend prolonged periods in close contact with an infected person to catch the infection yourself. For example, TB infections usually spread between family members who live in the same house. It would be highly unlikely to become infected by sitting next to an infected person on a bus or train. Not everyone with TB is infectious. Generally, children with TB or people with TB that occurs outside the lungs (extra pulmonary TB) do not spread the infection." Source here.
preraph Posted September 10, 2016 Posted September 10, 2016 You're acting very selfishly. Me, me, me. She has a serious and contagious illness and doesn't feel up to anything more than trying to feel better. Just leave her alone. She will either contact you when she's better, if she's better, or not. She is not well enough to want company. How long were you together in a face-to-face relationship before you moved?
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