Dasani Posted July 6, 2005 Posted July 6, 2005 How to make one girl you're dating "get" it.... more then the other (s) you are dating. I'v ebeen a good lil dater in the last few weeks.. I was stood up on one date but took out another girl and still had a great time the same night. I've gone out on two more dates what that same girl- and even on 2 dates with a third girl... I have future plans with girl #2 and girl #3 I will be calling Thursday to set up something lol The girls dont know about each other but 3rd date = the defining date if I want to see more of them or no (fo rme). Its where I'll draw the line persay. My problem is.. I still want girl #1 lol and its most likely that its because she stood me up. I'm not a player.. I promise.. I just am dating! no sleeping around .. none of that. I honestly have just been told by way too many people- to get out there and so I did... but I still want the one who turned me down ROFLAO. So.... what do I do? =) I'll take all suggestions into consideration then make my own decision like on thursday after class lol.
Author Dasani Posted July 6, 2005 Author Posted July 6, 2005 lame excuses- I called her twice on the friday before our date- The first I didnt leave a message- the 2nd I left a message (not mentioning the first call). She said she was on the phone and didnt click over- and didnt return my phone call due to me not leaving a message. Then she said she never got my 2nd message. Any time I've left a message- prior- she has called me back.. so.. thats why its a lame excuse. But this is the chica whom I had gone out for a few dates and kissed on our most recent- then she gave me a cold shoulder for 2 days till I said.. Stop it, whats up... then the lame excuses. And i'm sorry no one has ever called me a bad kisser... not to say I cant be.. but if I've had compliments and long make out sessions with each of my past releationships.. I doubt its that lol
Jess xx Posted July 6, 2005 Posted July 6, 2005 So you like girl #1 the best? Surely must be more than other reasons than she stood you up!?
lvgrl Posted July 6, 2005 Posted July 6, 2005 You should give her the cold shoulder and see how she likes it. Play her childish games till it comes back and bites her in the ass!
Author Dasani Posted July 6, 2005 Author Posted July 6, 2005 Originally posted by Jess xx So you like girl #1 the best? Surely must be more than other reasons than she stood you up!? there are more things that interest me.. the most important being... I know I act slightly different around girls I like (had a post about it before) I act more mature" I dont joke around as much.. but even I'm learning to loosen up.. i've always done it- but I'm getting better lol.. when I was with her- I wasn't uptight otr anything but I was trying to act all responsible- and she was sort of shy... well I would watch her when she wa son the phone with her friends and she becomes all animated.. the same way I do when I'm wioth my friends.. so her an dI havent reached that comfort zome of being ourselves yet.. I want to be around ehr and she around me when we are more of our true selves. we didnt have that chance on our previous few dates- first was ice cream "getting to know you" interview like date.. they're fun to me- but god! its not a date.. then we had a drink and saw a movie.. no talking = not a real date either.. then it was my birthday- and we did talk but lol.. i was all about the drinking that day- let alone i was ecstatic she celebrated my bday with me... we kissed that night.. but ever since. was sort of "eh" so yes.. still interested.. i'm not hung up. if we dont go out again.. then I'm done with her.. but lol.. still gotta put on a lil' chase for her!
ReluctantRomeo Posted July 6, 2005 Posted July 6, 2005 Originally posted by lvgrl You should give her the cold shoulder and see how she likes it. Play her childish games till it comes back and bites her in the ass! Yup. Or dump her ass!
Author Dasani Posted July 6, 2005 Author Posted July 6, 2005 Originally posted by lvgrl good lord, your worse than a girl, you confuse me..heh she and I act differently around each other than we do around our friends.. I do - because I like her. I dont know why she does it... thats why I'm still interested. that and shes hella cute
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