Zahara Posted September 9, 2016 Posted September 9, 2016 Thank you all for taking the time to write me back. This forum is all I have now since I literally have no one else to speak to. @stillafool - No she hasn't reached out and I won't call or text her. He hasn't answered and I know for a fact that she won't too. As someone mentioned here, atleast I have my self-respect by not chasing them for now. Part of me feels stupid because I gave this a second chance and I am blaming myself. This is what's killing me. I didnt even know ghosting exists as pathetic as that sounds. Nadine/Anna?
marky00 Posted September 9, 2016 Posted September 9, 2016 I didnt even know ghosting exists as pathetic as that sounds. Yes, I had been dumped 2 or 3 times in the past and I was over it within a week or so. It really depends how invested you are and how blindsided you are. Most of the people posting here got the double whammy, that is they were heavily invested and got blindsided with a good old ghosting to finish off the deal.
Zahara Posted September 9, 2016 Posted September 9, 2016 Part of me feels stupid because I gave this a second chance and I am blaming myself. This is what's killing me. I didnt even know ghosting exists as pathetic as that sounds. Don't devalue yourself because you chose to act from love and care so there is nothing "stupid" about emotionally reacting the way you did. You did what anyone with a level of emotional investment would do. There was nothing stupid about wanting or considering giving someone you've had history with a chance. Unfortunately he spit on it but that's NOT a reflection on you, but a reflection on him as to the kind of person he is. It has nothing to do with you. If anyone needs to feel "stupid" it's this douchebag. As I said in your other thread under Nadine, while you're going to go on to bigger and better -- growing from this, asswipe is always going to stay the jerk he is. Take consolation in knowing that you dodged a bullet. 1
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