moonlightpath Posted September 9, 2016 Posted September 9, 2016 I me this guy a couple months ago. We actually only communicated via text up until recently. Two weeks ago we went on our first date. It went really well. He took me to dinner and we learned a lot about each other. He asked me out on a second date before the first ended. Two days later he texted me and asked if I was busy. When I said no he asked if I wanted to see each other and we ended up getting a some ice cream and then we went to his house. While we were there we took his dog on a walk, he made me tea and gave me a pastry. He was being really sweet and we had a nice time talking. We both told each other we were looking for a serious relationship and we shared a few details about our previous relationships. After a bit he told me that his mother recently moved in with him since she recently split from his father. I was kinda surprised that he invited me to his house since his mother was staying with him. After she arrived home from work he introduced me to her and then she went to her bedroom to sleep. We ate and had drinks. We also watched movies in the living room until 2am. We cuddled a kissed a bit. But since he had to be at work early he drove me home. Before I got out of the car he leaned in and kissed me and said he had a good time and said he knew where he was going to take me for our next date but that he could not go out the following weekend because family would be visiting him for Labor Day weekend. During Labor Day weekend he texted me very slowly. He even apologized about it. He said he was busy entertaining guests. But then after Sunday he did not text or call. Yesterday I decided to text him. He replied right away but he didn't say anything about why he did not contact me since Sunday. He acted normal. We texted off and on all day. But he did not text me today again. Before last weekend he would always text me good morning and we would text through out the day. I feel like he is not into me but at the same time I do think he is into me because all the signs were there. And since I do not really know him that well I feel like I can't really come out and just ask him why he has not been texting me lately. It is not like we're exclusive. Thoughts?
Ami1uwant Posted September 9, 2016 Posted September 9, 2016 90% of the time on a 2nd or 3rd date you go to the others home generally implies getting sex. Since nothing happened he reads it with you as why bother...aint going to get some. 2
leogirl876 Posted September 9, 2016 Posted September 9, 2016 Sometimes a first date can go really well but then on the second or third date you realize it's not gonna work out. Some people don't end things right away because they feel bad so instead they do a fade out. I prefer to just end it right then and there. This guy I went out with was asking me on another date but I didn't really feel it so I let him know right away. Everyone is different.
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