Do you think "I'm too tired to drive up" is a good excuse to cancel plans to visit?

[GemmaUK]

I'm really amazed that you were/are angry about this.

 

A two hour drive and night out when she is tired is really not the most considerate position for you to be putting her in.

 

At weekends your dad comes ot pick you up also.

 

Why don't you take some responsibility of your own and visit her once a week rather than it all being on her?

Also give your dad a break and make your own way back for the weekend?

 

What's stopping you stepping up?