Springsummer Posted August 24, 2016 Posted August 24, 2016 If she/he has tons of pretty opposite sex on his/her social media?
Author Springsummer Posted August 24, 2016 Author Posted August 24, 2016 they have friends.....deb but someone on the other post just said this: The only reason a guy is "friends" with a girl is because: A) He has a thing for her. B) She's a friend of a friend. 1
JustGettingBy Posted August 24, 2016 Posted August 24, 2016 Does 'tons' refer to sheer number, or the percentage of people on their friends list. Someone might have only 10 attractive friends of the opposite sex on social media, but 15 friends total (very few attractive friends, but making up a high percentage of their overall friends). Another person might have 20 really attractive opposite sex friends, but 200 total friends (more friends who are attractive, but making up a small percentage of their total friends).
preraph Posted August 24, 2016 Posted August 24, 2016 Speaking as a woman on Twitter with a neutral sounding name that you can't tell if I'm female or male, I get hit at least twice daily with "pretty girls" following me and when I go look at their profiles, I can see it's just a porn spam thing and block them. I think that's going to be 50 percent of the "pretty women" on anyone's site, people selling sex. Then if there's some who aren't, maybe the guy is just good looking and gets a lot of females who stumble across his photo and follow him.
Author Springsummer Posted August 24, 2016 Author Posted August 24, 2016 Speaking as a woman on Twitter with a neutral sounding name that you can't tell if I'm female or male, I get hit at least twice daily with "pretty girls" following me and when I go look at their profiles, I can see it's just a porn spam thing and block them. I think that's going to be 50 percent of the "pretty women" on anyone's site, people selling sex. Then if there's some who aren't, maybe the guy is just good looking and gets a lot of females who stumble across his photo and follow him. oh, I don't use twitter, so I don't know. I am talking about FB. In that case, you have to add them to be your friends.
Author Springsummer Posted August 24, 2016 Author Posted August 24, 2016 (edited) Does 'tons' refer to sheer number, or the percentage of people on their friends list. Someone might have only 10 attractive friends of the opposite sex on social media, but 15 friends total (very few attractive friends, but making up a high percentage of their overall friends). Another person might have 20 really attractive opposite sex friends, but 200 total friends (more friends who are attractive, but making up a small percentage of their total friends). Let's guesstimate, 400-500 total, about 65-70% female, and half of them appear to be attractive and single. notice 2 specifically take pics aim at their big boobs...shameless... Edited August 24, 2016 by Springsummer
preraph Posted August 25, 2016 Posted August 25, 2016 oh, I don't use twitter, so I don't know. I am talking about FB. In that case, you have to add them to be your friends. It's pretty much the same on any social media. On Twitter you can block them too or set it to where you have to accept them. This guy I was kind of involved with has a lot of that on his Facebook and I can tell by the photos most of them are just ads for porn or prostitutes.
Author Springsummer Posted August 28, 2016 Author Posted August 28, 2016 Often on weekends, you see this person added pretty women on his social media...you wonder how and where he met all these women...while I just sitting at home all by myself ... what am I suppose to do and feel? my life sucks totally! I don't know what can I do about it.
angel.eyes Posted August 28, 2016 Posted August 28, 2016 Go out. Do something you enjoy. Make friends. Sitting at home moping will change nothing.
Author Springsummer Posted August 28, 2016 Author Posted August 28, 2016 Go out. Do something you enjoy. Make friends. Sitting at home moping will change nothing. used to hangout with a few friends and went to clubs occasionally. Now all these friend are gone back to their home countries. Not sure how to make friends again. also, feel too old for clubbing. dating sites don't work for me either.
Author Springsummer Posted August 28, 2016 Author Posted August 28, 2016 How old are you and what are your hobbies? dangerous age...now I go to gym or pool 1-2 hours a day. I roller-blade, snowboard/ski in the winter...That's pretty much about it. sometimes, I tend to isolate myself...it seems friends all turned out to be disappointment and I haven't got a clue about men...
CarrieT Posted August 28, 2016 Posted August 28, 2016 dangerous age... What does that mean? :rolleyes::roll eyes: I was "dangerous" at 25, 36, and 48...
mrs rubble Posted August 28, 2016 Posted August 28, 2016 used to hangout with a few friends and went to clubs occasionally. Now all these friend are gone back to their home countries. Not sure how to make friends again. also, feel too old for clubbing. dating sites don't work for me either. Join a club. Any sort of club that takes your interest.
Author Springsummer Posted September 7, 2016 Author Posted September 7, 2016 This man you have been fancied for a long long time...after you finally added him on social media in the last 6 months. The number of friends he has been adding almost exceed all of your friends all together. Like every other weeks he is adding 2 female friends. How and where can one keep adding opposite sex friends? what a busy social life...what kind of person is this? This person looks serious and a good person. I thought I have a connection with this person. Guess I am totally wrong. Turns out this guy is flanneling pretty good...while I am/was fixating... Life is the opposite of what I imagine. 1
Icould Posted September 7, 2016 Posted September 7, 2016 (edited) Social media kills relationships, I would feel the same as you if I was in you're position. How would you feel if you couldn't see his friends list? Does he know you like him? What's flanneling? You shouldn't worry about how many girls he's adding, it's hard to stop your brain overthinking things once it starts. Edited September 7, 2016 by Icould editing a word 1
Author Springsummer Posted September 7, 2016 Author Posted September 7, 2016 where and how I can find handsome guys? 1
Author Springsummer Posted September 7, 2016 Author Posted September 7, 2016 Social media kills relationships, I would feel the same as you if I was in you're position. How would you feel if you couldn't see his friends list? Does he know you like him? What's flanneling? You shouldn't worry about how many girls he's adding, it's hard to stop your brain overthinking things once it starts. I think that's the word or I misspel it? some dating books talk about meeting lots of opposites so one has lots of choices. 1
Satu Posted September 7, 2016 Posted September 7, 2016 where and how I can find handsome guys? You could try the Argos store on Southbridge in Edinburgh. I had a clear sighting of one yesterday.
Author Springsummer Posted September 10, 2016 Author Posted September 10, 2016 One or two girls/women are added.... what does it say about this man? I am totally blown away...he doesn't come across as a player at all.
Author Springsummer Posted September 10, 2016 Author Posted September 10, 2016 maybe i should unfriend him...
Mr. Lucky Posted September 10, 2016 Posted September 10, 2016 Do you have a relationship with him IRL? Not sure why you'd care who he adds online... Mr. Lucky
basil67 Posted September 10, 2016 Posted September 10, 2016 One or two girls/women are added.... what does it say about this man? I am totally blown away...he doesn't come across as a player at all. How do his choices affect you?
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