H2ThePower3 Posted July 5, 2005 Posted July 5, 2005 Okay here is the main problem. Normally I have no problems approaching females, at least those who I have no intentions of anything else besides friendship. But when I see someone who I am somehow attracted too I feel nervous when I approach them. Anyway to cut things short at the place I am working which is an event, there is this girl (let's name her Jo) whom I find myself attracted too. I didn't really get the chance to know her much, becuase our shifts start and end at almost the opposite time, but still I managed to make some short conversations. But anyways a few days ago, I got to know that it would be the last month she will be working there. So on her last day of work, I decided to go have lunch at her workplace in hopes of getting to know her better. I brought along a friend and his gf just so that it wouldn't be awkward for Jo. Things went quite well from what I hoped, we talked quite a bit, and she almost joined us for a movie but then she changed her mind at the last minute. I don't really know what make her changed her mind, but anyway I thought all was good and ok. I got back and added her to my friendster and a few days later I SMSed her, saying that the event might be ending soon and there is some freebies (t-shirts,etc). So I asked if she wanted 1 of the freebies. She didn't even replied my message. Then today when I checked my friendster,she was no longer registered as my friend. Anyway I need some light on this. Did I do something wrong, or did I just scare her away or something? If so what should I do now ?
lvgrl Posted July 5, 2005 Posted July 5, 2005 Ask her. Sounds like its something with her, so ask her if you have done anything wrong, or if shes okay. Could be a number of things, might not be personal.
Author H2ThePower3 Posted July 5, 2005 Author Posted July 5, 2005 Well the problem with most females they shut down and put up a barrier when they know that someone wants something more then friendship. Normally I have a faint idea of what they are thinking and what they are gonna say, if given enough time talking to them say like in a day time. But this last conversation with her left me clueless. How do I ask her whats going on, is it something I did wrong or is she alright without making myself sound like some psycho stalker or whatever u people call it?
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