Is it common for men to frivilously get into a relationship?

[JelatineDessert]

Do men get into relationships with women they don't really have feelings for yet only date them for superficial reasons like "arm-candy" and image?

 

Tell me about a time where you dated a woman (or even a man) that you were with for a while but didn't really care much for or didn't really have much in common with. Why were you dating her?Were you just glad you were able to land a hottie like her and wanted to show her off? Were you just interested in the sex and wanted her all to yourself? Were you scared of being alone?

 

 

If a man says "I love you," does it necessarily mean it's true? Do men just say that to satisfy the woman?

[Gr8fuln2020]

Do men get into relationships with women they don't really have feelings for yet only date them for superficial reasons like "arm-candy" and image?

 

Tell me about a time where you dated a woman (or even a man) that you were with for a while but didn't really care much for or didn't really have much in common with. Why were you dating her?Were you just glad you were able to land a hottie like her and wanted to show her off? Were you just interested in the sex and wanted her all to yourself? Were you scared of being alone?

 

 

If a man says "I love you," does it necessarily mean it's true? Do men just say that to satisfy the woman?

 

The answer to your question is a CLEAR yes! Of course people date just for the sex or to have a trophy gf/bf. I have never...

[Gloria25]

People date, have relationships, and/or marry for all kinds of reasons...it may be sex, companionship, arm candy, money, aocial status, pressure from family/society/etc., loneliness, keeping up with the Joneses.

 

The hard part is getting him/her to be honest with you and themselves as to what they want.

 

I believe that by the third date and/or before sex that person should know what they are looking for. I'm saying that they're gonna know if you fit the bill....

 

Lemme explain, on Millionaire Matchmaker, there was this tall football or basketball player. A Caucasian guy, who seemed all humble and was busy whining about cuz of his fame, can't meet a decent girl. Well, when the MM tried to sey him up with someone, on first meet he's asking her if she'llwalk around his flat in a sexy French Maid outfit. So, he was looking for arm candy...a "trophy", quasi-escort...NOT a woman to have a RL with of any substance. And yes, some people could care less about actually connecting with someone...they rather be with "something" than "nothing"...some are more preoccupied with "image"...some just treat another human being as a blow up doll with a pulse...some just want a maid and babysitter that they van have sex with now/then.. To me, that's pretty sad.

 

So again, good luck with trying to get someone to be honest with themselves and you as to what they want.

 

Me, I'm not a guy, but yes, I've been with guys that I didn't like much, but didn't care about compatability cuz I wasn't serious about them. Now, regardless of whether or not I see a future with someone, I don't get excited unless they have certain qualities about them...which is kinda hurting me when it doesn't last.

[JelatineDessert]

People date, have relationships, and/or marry for all kinds of reasons...it may be sex, companionship, arm candy, money, aocial status, pressure from family/society/etc., loneliness, keeping up with the Joneses.

 

The hard part is getting him/her to be honest with you and themselves as to what they want.

 

I believe that by the third date and/or before sex that person should know what they are looking for. I'm saying that they're gonna know if you fit the bill....

 

Lemme explain, on Millionaire Matchmaker, there was this tall football or basketball player. A Caucasian guy, who seemed all humble and was busy whining about cuz of his fame, can't meet a decent girl. Well, when the MM tried to sey him up with someone, on first meet he's asking her if she'llwalk around his flat in a sexy French Maid outfit. So, he was looking for arm candy...a "trophy", quasi-escort...NOT a woman to have a RL with of any substance. And yes, some people could care less about actually connecting with someone...they rather be with "something" than "nothing"...some are more preoccupied with "image"...some just treat another human being as a blow up doll with a pulse...some just want a maid and babysitter that they van have sex with now/then.. To me, that's pretty sad.

 

So again, good luck with trying to get someone to be honest with themselves and you as to what they want.

 

Me, I'm not a guy, but yes, I've been with guys that I didn't like much, but didn't care about compatability cuz I wasn't serious about them. Now, regardless of whether or not I see a future with someone, I don't get excited unless they have certain qualities about them...which is kinda hurting me when it doesn't last.

 

Do you think it's normal for a person who doesn't really love their bf/gf to say "I love you"? (Like leaving comments on your social media pictures with "I love you")

[Icould]

"If a man says "I love you," does it necessarily mean it's true? Do men just say that to satisfy the woman?

 

No, but it depends on the individual. There are men out there who are just players and will tell you whatever they think you want to hear. They might be confusing love for lust, it takes time to fall in love IMO.

 

I've heard of people saying it to girls within a few weeks and it working just to get in their knickers. If someone does say it, it's could be a way to say "you're the only one for me". People use love term very loosely and it's doesn't mean as much nowadays.

[OneLov]

If a man says "I love you," does it necessarily mean it's true? Do men just say that to satisfy the woman?

 

Nothing you hear is necessarily true. Maybe they do; who knows?

 

We say things we do not really mean all the time. If you did an honest self-inventory, you would probably have found that you have said things that aren't really true. But sometimes we say things we really do mean at the time.

 

Why We're All Moral Hypocrites

 

"Eighty-five percent of 42 subjects passed up the computer’s objectivity and assigned themselves the short task – leaving the laborious one to someone else. Furthermore, they thought their decision was fair. However, when 43 other subjects watched strangers make the same decision, they thought it unjust.

 

It is in our nature to be hypocritical.

[SmartDude]

If by frivolous you mean without wanting to be in a long term relationship, I would say absolutely! I think you can still love people even if you don't plan to spend the rest of your life with them. Maybe its just a moment in time and its beautifull but not ment to last.