marky00 Posted September 6, 2016 Posted September 6, 2016 Exactly. Your decisions have been solely driven by your own point of view. What works for you and how best it serves you. The right thing is often the most difficult to do -- and that applies to you and Girl A. You both are avoiding pain and discomfort when the healthy thing to do is to embrace it and allow that to encourage growth. This is true but is also my reason for saying that crashing and burning doesn't do the girls a favour either. GirlA and GirlB aren't aware of all the circumstances nor should they be. When you do break it off with GirlA, I think honesty and respect would be the best approach if possible.
Zahara Posted September 6, 2016 Posted September 6, 2016 This is true but is also my reason for saying that crashing and burning doesn't do the girls a favour either. GirlA and GirlB aren't aware of all the circumstances nor should they be. When you do break it off with GirlA, I think honesty and respect would be the best approach if possible. Who's crashing and burning? The consensus is to be honest and to act with integrity and the objective is to let Girl A go. He can then continue his relationship with Girl B as he chooses.
marky00 Posted September 6, 2016 Posted September 6, 2016 Kudos to the OP figuring things out the right way. I was so stubborn back in 2008 that I probably would have still self-sabotaged despite all this great advise. Its one thing getting advise, its another thing taking it. 2
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