Girlfriend come out with the i don't feel close anymore out of nowhere!?

[gxorge]

So yeah my girlfriend was acting all strange on me last night and today when i thought we could just have a normal phone call after work she was sniggering and then said "I want to discuss with you on Saturday about something" so i just asked why and what is it, a few times and then that's when she all the sudden said "I dunno how to say it but I don't feel like we're close anymore, i still love you though".

 

And now I just dunno what to do, just my head is all over the place I don't know weather just to end it now or something or what really. Why bother saying that and then the i love you part? We chatted earlier but it seems like she doesn't really care she's saying that she doesn't want to break up but is she lying?? i dunno please someone help.:(:(:(:(:(:(

[ManyDissapoint]

Honestly, dump her now. Your relationship is done. Tell her you are dumping her bevause you need someone who can communicate like a mature adult. Wish her all the best and block her everywhere. This way you win. Sounds brutal but that's the game you're in.

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[aloneinaz]

The ball is in your court. You can take charge here and or let her walk all over you, ruin your self esteem and create all kind of BS and drama.

 

My advice, contact her back via phone or text. Let her know you've thought about what she said and you no longer want to continue dating her. She's on the path to dumping you anyway. Exchange things if needed then vanish from her life. You'll feel SSOO much better if you take charge vs. sitting back, letting her dictate things and kick you to the curb.

 

Now, you can sit back and really evaluate that R/S. Was it great? Were there problems? Did you REALLY see yourself with her 1 year from now, 5 years from now?

 

Personally, if a woman EVER told me that she "had doubts" about me or "us", that would be an immediate deal breaker and I'd be done and I'd end it right then. She's telling me she's not feeling it (which is her right) and my right would be to accept it and move onto someone who wants me.