Boyfriend broke up with me, called me the next day and then ignored me?

[moonchild94]

I feel like a load of crap.

 

We had an argument and he said he had mixed feelings.

That we shouldn't talk for a while.

I pleased with him that we just end this correctly and not have a break.

I couldn't take it anymore.

Of course he ignored and so I went out with friends at night time because he lost a really good girl.(me)

He monitored me the whole time on my snapchat. Later that night at 3am he called me multiple times. I was asleep but he said I was ****ty for not answering.

 

I called him back because I don't like the constant back and forth.

I pleaded again to ask if we can talk or meet to end this correctly and on a nice note. He ignores. I see he's online and doing things, I called him about 8 times.

I asked him why can't we separate on good terms? Why did he call me when he broke up with me?

 

I finally deleted him off everything and messaged him goodbye/ I'm very disappointed.

 

I'm also alone with a pregnancy or std scare because my body is not feeling good at all.

 

I tried to be mature but he's ignoring me.....

Did I do something wrong? Was I too naggy?

I was just trying to cooperate and make it easy....

[srhxo]

Sounds like he was stringing you along and got mad that you weren't playing along with the game. You shouldn't have to wait around for him when he isn't even sure that he wants to be with you. You did the right thing by deleting him.

[moonchild94]

Sounds like he was stringing you along and got mad that you weren't playing along with the game. You shouldn't have to wait around for him when he isn't even sure that he wants to be with you. You did the right thing by deleting him.

 

Yeah, I deleted him on everything. I only dated him for 1 month but I did so much for him and I put in a lot of effort. He's older than me too. I should've known when he said I love you so early when he officially asked me out that he was insane.

[ExpatInItaly]

All of this for only a one-month relationship is nuts.

 

You're better without him.

Get yourself to a doctor immediately if you aren't feeling well. In time, you will feel better emotionally as well.

[moonchild94]

All of this for only a one-month relationship is nuts.

 

You're better without him.

Get yourself to a doctor immediately if you aren't feeling well. In time, you will feel better emotionally as well.

 

No no, I know only one month is ridiculous.

But I just hate when I have bad blood between people and I.

Also, the fact that he was my first, I just wanted to part ways nicely.

Not just ditched.... that was exactly what I was afraid of.

I'm seeing a counselor soon and I'm going to the dr tomorrow.

Just really sucks because I wanted my first bf to be my first love.

That didn't happen...... I had dreams too.