Shotputter Posted September 6, 2016 Posted September 6, 2016 Sup guys, Haven't posted here in a while but been lurking. I recently went on vacation to south carolina ( im from MASS) so its about a 15 hour drive... The last day i was there, i hopped on tinder and met a girl whom i found quite attractive.. I figured why not, it can't hurt to try so the final night i was there i walked to a spot and she drove and met up with me. We walked and talked on the beach and the chemistry was really there. We're really alike in so many ways and it was really a refreshing time.. now, about a week later we're planning a trip... We're both gonna drive about 7 hours to meet up.. I'm probably gonna lie to my parents and tell them some excuse... I wouldn't be doing this if i didn't think things with this girl could go somewhere. I do really like her. What i'm asking is, do you guys think its worth it to drive 7 hours to meet up with a girl that you only met once and probably will only be able to see at best once a month until i graduate college (which is in 1 year). With the provided information, do you think this is all logical??? thank you!
CarrieT Posted September 6, 2016 Posted September 6, 2016 I'm probably gonna lie to my parents and tell them some excuse... I wouldn't be doing this if i didn't think things with this girl could go somewhere. I do really like her. First, you don't KNOW her well enough to know that you like her. You like the idea of her... Secondly, anything that involves lying to a parent - regardless of your age - should raise giant red flags that it isn't a good idea, don't you think? 1
Author Shotputter Posted September 6, 2016 Author Posted September 6, 2016 First, you don't KNOW her well enough to know that you like her. You like the idea of her... Secondly, anything that involves lying to a parent - regardless of your age - should raise giant red flags that it isn't a good idea, don't you think? Lying to my parent has nothing to do with whether this girl is worth it to make the drive or not. that being said, i'm driving to find out whether i actually like her like i think i do.
scubasteve Posted September 10, 2016 Posted September 10, 2016 Just don't have your parents worry that they don't know where you are if you get killed
salparadise Posted September 10, 2016 Posted September 10, 2016 With the provided information, do you think this is all logical??? Logical, nope. Understandable, yes. You're going to have a hard time rationalizing any of this lovey-dovey stuff using the logical test. Don't deceive your parents about where you are. Just say meeting friends and leave out the part about trying to get laid.
Downtown Posted September 14, 2016 Posted September 14, 2016 Sal, if you were unable to PM me, it was because my inbox was full. Have fixed it. Apparently, you now have the same problem.
sooshi Posted September 14, 2016 Posted September 14, 2016 No, I don't think it's worth it. Or logical. Take time to get to know her first.
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