WonderKid Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 My mom told me that what happened gave me closure. I never knew that I was seeking such a thing but I can agree with her on that. I broke NC when my GF contacted me through Craigslist on email. She said that my post sounded "familiar" and wanted to see if it was me. But she knew. She thought I was mad but I wasn't. When she broke up with me she claimed that she was seeking God. But why are you even on CL to begin with, if you wanted to stay single? She said that she was just lonely, honestly. And it was the weekend this happened on; so she was spending it by herself. She said, "Every every guy worked for every girl then no one would be single. We just didn't mesh well so why would I stick around knowing I wasn't giving you something you needed." "You cannot keep putting words in my mouth and making them sound any way in your head. I know what I said and what I meant. I wanted to feel some type of way and wasn't getting that so what was the point in staying around? And obviously I do feel bad because I lost a good person but it's good I'm glad you are living the good life." I think that was BS in my opinion. We were "meshing" real well when I was making you feel: beautiful, confident, sexy, and important. Letting you use my car and being attentive and affectionate. At the end of the day you either: don't know what you want, weren't attracted to me, or just got bored with me. She claimed that since I am over her so quickly, my love for her is as intense as I thought. I disagree but alright. She was trying to make it seem like I was coaxing her to making it seem like this could work but I wasn't. I'm a realist. We could never work more than on a casual level. She broke up with me over email. So, she said, if she would've done it any other way would I have been happy? I said no. I was breaking up with a person I love--why would I be happy? I would've respected it more had she have done it like a grown woman instead of like a coward. If I love someone I couldn't break up over email or text because it would hurt me too. But it shows that she didn't have that love. She admitted that she understood where I was coming from and she only did it that way because she was a punk and apologized. I accepted and left it alone. From the entire conversation I concluded that she's a great person but when it comes to being someone's GF or wife she's full of ****. You have many people like that in this world: great people but bad GF/BFs. So I buried it and left it behind. I do feel different about it. And I say timing is everything. Had she contacted me earlier than a month, I wouldn't have been in the best mental mindstate to handle myself properly.
marky00 Posted September 6, 2016 Posted September 6, 2016 Ouch, Those words were horrible. All about her. She isn't a nice person. Nice people don't take a chance to put u down months after a breakup. I know what you mean about the mesh thing. Its like a light switch goes off and literally within a few weeks, they make out like the whole relationship was never going to work even though it took them years to get there. 1
Author WonderKid Posted September 8, 2016 Author Posted September 8, 2016 Actually if she would've broken up with me face-to-face like we kept our words to, we could have been friends. It would've went better. But the way she went about the entire breakup just put me off. The mesh thing still trips me out. Like, really, what else could you have been looking for? I feel like meshing was just substitute for convenience.
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