Virgogirl77 Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 (edited) Have been dating this guy for a few weeks now. On our last date, he asked me to his place and I kindly declined. I made it clear that I like him and am attracted to him, but don't move so fast. We ended the date with a nice, long kiss, and we texted that weekend when I was away from town. He said that we would chat, which I assumed meant to plan the next date. I don't hear from him for a few days and text him. He tells me that he was finishing a report for work and will be away this long weekend to attend a sports event, which he had previously mentioned and booked last minute, and that we will catch up next week. Texted him this weekend to wish him good luck and he texted back immediately. (He seemed enthused about the game.) Any thoughts? Edited September 5, 2016 by Virgogirl77
TunaCat Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 It's simple. He lost interest when you made it clear that you weren't ready for sex. If he wasn't just after sex, he would have already made plans to see you again. Time to move on OP. 2
Author Virgogirl77 Posted September 5, 2016 Author Posted September 5, 2016 (edited) It's funny because I kissed him on our second and third date. I actually invited him to my house (not for a night cap), and he declined. He seemed more scared of me than I of him. He said he knew I was conservative-as was he. Guess time will tell? Edited September 5, 2016 by Virgogirl77
smackie9 Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 I think you are reading way too much into it. Be flirty and carefree, be positive. 3
Author Virgogirl77 Posted September 5, 2016 Author Posted September 5, 2016 Yes, you are right. I need to chill. I guess I am overthinking the situation since I like this dude so much. Must think positive! 1
leogirl876 Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 I think you are reading way too much into it. Be flirty and carefree, be positive. Agreed!! He's out of town on business. Wait and see what happens when he gets back. But don't be like a needy stalker and keep texting him, wishing him good luck, checking in with him, etc. that gets very annoying to people! Wait for him to reach out to you! 3
Author Virgogirl77 Posted September 5, 2016 Author Posted September 5, 2016 I had no intention of texting again. Will sit on my hands if need be.
ThisisIt606 Posted September 7, 2016 Posted September 7, 2016 Many guys are very 1 track focused and have trouble planning too far into the future. He was probably just excited about his long weekend away for the sports event and maybe still even needed to pack/ get things ready last minute. He can go and enjoy the game. Do you know if he's back? He should reach out to you when he returns. 1
Author Virgogirl77 Posted September 7, 2016 Author Posted September 7, 2016 Thank you ThisitIt606! He said he would be returning Monday, and so yes, if he's interested, HE needs to call. He takes his time, remember? My good friend tells me he's taking things slow. Sure hope she's right.
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