EssoJnr Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 Last year I had a pretty intensive on/off fwb relationship. We have not spoken over the last 6/7 months and have ended up seeing each other 3 times in the last month (due to attending the same social events). The problem is is that I just don't get the impression he's over me. What makes it worse is that he is now in an open relationship with his girlfriend he met at university. When I've seen him he asks me inappropriate sexual questions, the most recent being asking about sex toys despite we have not been intimate since last Christmas. When he asked I gave him a weird expression as I believe it to be inappropriate and made it obvious to him. He also tells me about his raunchy sex life yet seems to be jealous or ask too many questions about anyone in mine. He does guiltily slip into my mind when I'm alone and aroused but it does not bother me enough that when we're in person I'm turned on and wanting to rekindle what we did in the past. Opinions? 1
smudge21 Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 (edited) Trying to make you jealous and looking for a reaction, whilst at the same time not wanting to feel jealousy or give a reaction. It's a game. If you don't want to play it, then walk away. This isn't Jumanji - you're not forced to play on (if you could resurrect Robin Williams though that would be great). You owe this guy nothing and from the sounds of things, both of you don't really care for each other, so I don't see what the point is of maintaining this game. Walk away and spend your valuable short time on this planet with better people. Edited September 5, 2016 by smudge21 spelling 1
Satu Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 "JACK: You are a pain in the neck To stop you giving me a pain in the neck I protect my neck by tightening my neck muscles, which gives me the pain in the neck you are. JILL: My head aches through trying to stop you giving me a headache." - RD Laing, 'Knots.'
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