venusinlibra Posted September 4, 2016 Posted September 4, 2016 He never said ILY before. We got super close on my birthday and he panicked and pulled away.He said he'd call me two months ago. I just went on with life like moving happened (on the outside). He is an insecure guy, or at the very least, us inexperienced with dating and initiating. He knows that I don't chase or initiate. I believe he wants ME to contact him, due to some observations that I won't elaborate on right now. Three weeks ago, I started getting more active in the social group we met in. He started trying to make me jealous by having his "best friend" and former f buddy to post photos of them partying on Facebook. His birthday was on August 27th. On the 24th, I began receiving text messages saying "happy birthday". Two numbers did belong to legit people on Facebook but I couldn't see if they were linked to my ex. I just replied "it's not your bday yet". On the night of his birthday, he had the female best friend post photos of her, her sister, and my ex at a birthday dinner. I ignored it. On August 30th, I got a text from ANOTHER strange phone number (which is apparently disconnected or blocked when I called it). The message says "oh no, did I forget ur birthday?"- when it was HIS birthday. I made a joke that he did forget ( me and ex have same sense of humor), and then he replied: I'm sorry I forgot. I forget my own birthday too. Happy bday. I love you I asked when he's coming for his gift and said that I knew what he was up to. He played dumb. Then I replied that I miss him and love him. Since then, there's been a few strange phone calls but I didn't answer. What is going on? What should I do?
HumanMachine Posted September 4, 2016 Posted September 4, 2016 You were receiving messages saying happy birthday? What?
Author venusinlibra Posted September 4, 2016 Author Posted September 4, 2016 Yes. But it was HIS birthday, not mine.
HumanMachine Posted September 4, 2016 Posted September 4, 2016 He's playing games Keeping you at arms length Go nc 1
Author venusinlibra Posted September 5, 2016 Author Posted September 5, 2016 Is it purely a game? Or does he actually love me? Wonder what went through his mind when I appeared to catch on to what he was doing?
Omei Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 It's a game If he loves you he wouldn't be your ex and you wouldn't be his. He may not be posting things to get at you even he just may be posting but your so busy looking at his page all the time you think it's connected to you when it could be nothing at all. 1
Dis Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 Is it purely a game? Or does he actually love me? Wonder what went through his mind when I appeared to catch on to what he was doing? Its just games If he loved you he wouldnt toss you breadcrumbs People know when they are loved my someone....the question doesnt need to be asked Stop allowing him to play with your head...we teach people how to treat us...you're teaching him he can treat you poorly Block/delete
Dis Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 Is it purely a game? Or does he actually love me? Double post..sorry
h0000 Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 who else have trouble understanding the entire post? But doesn't matter what's going on, you broke up for a reason so let it go. If he loved you, you wouldn't have broken up 1
smudge21 Posted September 5, 2016 Posted September 5, 2016 You want to play games or you want to be in a relationship? I get the feeling you'll only get the first choice with this guy. Move on.
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