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Upset a girl, she blocked me.. Should i apologise?


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Whilst she was in the wrong i did overreact

 

She's blocked me in every possible way

 

She's into me and has been for the past 6 months, just earlier today she said how happy i make her and how in love she is with me

 

I messed up but should i give her space or text an apology off another phone

 

Something like-

 

"X i want to apologies for earlier, i shouldn't have said what I did"

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Don't apologize unless you mean it and won't get mad at the same thing if it happens again.

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Whilst she was in the wrong i did overreact

 

She's blocked me in every possible way

 

She's into me and has been for the past 6 months, just earlier today she said how happy i make her and how in love she is with me

 

I messed up but should i give her space or text an apology off another phone

 

Something like-

 

"X i want to apologies for earlier, i shouldn't have said what I did"

 

Sounds like a good plan

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Don't apologize unless you mean it and won't get mad at the same thing if it happens again.

 

I am sorry for how i acted but i don't want to smother her - maybe wait a day?

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Don't text her, don't contact her, leave her alone! She blocked you for a reason. If you leave her alone, she may come back in a few days after she has time to cool off. If you contact her and smother her, it's just going to annoy her more.

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Don't text her, don't contact her, leave her alone! She blocked you for a reason. If you leave her alone, she may come back in a few days after she has time to cool off. If you contact her and smother her, it's just going to annoy her more.

 

That's exactly what i thought, thanks.

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What did you say or do when you overreacted?

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That's exactly what i thought, thanks.

Yeah so.. what exactly did you say that made her block you in every possible way?

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Yeah, it’s very important to know what you said or did because that determines what you should do.

 

DO NOT contact her at all and get help if you:

• Hit her or did anything physical to her

• Broke things or blocked her exit

• Threatened her

• Called her a <bad word> or crazy

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Wait if she was in the wrong, then she needs to apologize to you. Hold her accountable for whatever she did.

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If she's blocked you, she doesn't want to talk to you at the moment.

 

Just let her be for now.

 

 

Take care.

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Without knowing what she did and how you reacted we cannot help you at all.

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Don't phone her on another phone right away to make an apology. If she's blocked you it means she wants time to cool off (for both you and her). Apologizing right after she's blocked you also seems less genuine as it can come off as apologizing to try and get her to unblock you, rather than apologizing for the proper reason.

 

Also, you said she was in the wrong. Idk why you'd be the one to apologize. Something has been left out.

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...Also, you said she was in the wrong. Idk why you'd be the one to apologize. Something has been left out.

...yeah seriously...

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Wait if she was in the wrong, then she needs to apologize to you. Hold her accountable for whatever she did.

 

Or possibly, an apology needs to go both ways. It's likely that both of them acted poorly.

 

She apologise for starting it and he apologise for overreacting.

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She blocked you if you go off making a new account you're going to look desperate and needy she doesn't want to hear from you at this time.

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Well it all depends what she did and what he did, without that info, it is difficult to advise.

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She apologise for starting it and he apologise for overreacting.

 

I would've been quite happy to do this.

 

She unblocked me, but didn't apologies (expected me to be ok and forgiving because she unblocked me - lol) so I blocked her. She'll never hear from me again.

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