I feel so bad ):

[lolsmileyface]

I'm crushing on someone who is in a relationship with a baby too. He leads me to believe he likes me like I distanced myself from him to lose feelings maybe and he approaches me and asks why have I been acting like this it's hurting his feelings. Then he sends me an IM saying miss you. We are very comfortable with each other he drinks off me etc. he tells me he likes my personality and how I carry myself when we first met. We haven't known each other long but it feels like I've known him forever when I stopped talking to him he began pulling away after awhile I made a status saying how I hate when people ignore me and the next day he comes up and says hi. I read into everything. What makes it worse is I work with him do you have any advice for me I don't want to cut him off):

[preraph]

It's the worst possible scenario. He is obviously probably trying to cheat on his woman, so not sure what you find attractive about that. He'd do the exact same thing to you. And he has a baby, so it's downright evil for him to be out playing while his baby's mother is stuck at home with an infant. This is when a GOOD man would be staying very busy providing and protecting for the mother of his baby and his baby. Instead, he's trying to wind up a woman at work. Why? Because it's convenient. He figures he can do that and keep his relationship going with his baby's mother, because she's tied down real good right now, so where can she possibly go? She depends on him.

 

Don't be a chump here. He's not worth it. He'd do the same things to you. He's not a good guy.

 

You tell him, Shouldn't you be at home helping with the baby?

[starswewillnavigate]

I think you need to ask yourself do you really want to have an affair with this man? If the answer is no, then you need to cut him off, because if you don't you'll only be tempted if you have feelings or encourage him.

[basil67]

What was your intention of making the 'hate when people ignore me' status?