Is it time to end it

[Mikey89]

Thanks to anyone who replies.

 

I have been with my gf for 16 months, we have just got back from a night out and she got really drunk, we came back and i walked her home looked after her etc and was going to go to sleep when she initiated sex. Half way through she called out another guys name, now i know she is really drunk but i know what it is like to be really drunk too, you say what you think and it really put me off. Other then tonight we are really happy, she had a lot to drink tonight and was really drunk but the fact she called someone elses name really bothers me.

 

I stopped the sex and asked her what she said and at first she denied it and then after 10 minutes of arguing she said its because i do not do enough for her. Tonight we went our for dinner which i bought and then we went and had some drinks and that is where things started to go wrong, she lost her dad a few years ago and started crying a lot, i was kissing and cuddling her and walked her home we then had sex and she called someone elses name half way through.

 

When we are sober we get on really well but this is the second night in a row where we have gone out and she had caused a scene, during the argument tonight and me asking her why she called someone elses name she said i do not make her feel good enough and she punched me in the face.

 

I really care about this girl but when we have a drink it seems all her problems come out and it causes a massive rift between us.

 

I do care about her but the fact she has drunkily called another guys name out during sex and not seemd to care has really put doubts in my mind. I know she is drunk but i would never call out another girls name and she has gone straight to sleep without fighting what she said

 

Any thoughts?

 

Thanks

[Naveen2016]

Thanks to anyone who replies.

 

I have been with my gf for 16 months, we have just got back from a night out and she got really drunk, we came back and i walked her home looked after her etc and was going to go to sleep when she initiated sex. Half way through she called out another guys name, now i know she is really drunk but i know what it is like to be really drunk too, you say what you think and it really put me off. Other then tonight we are really happy, she had a lot to drink tonight and was really drunk but the fact she called someone elses name really bothers me.

 

I stopped the sex and asked her what she said and at first she denied it and then after 10 minutes of arguing she said its because i do not do enough for her. Tonight we went our for dinner which i bought and then we went and had some drinks and that is where things started to go wrong, she lost her dad a few years ago and started crying a lot, i was kissing and cuddling her and walked her home we then had sex and she called someone elses name half way through.

 

When we are sober we get on really well but this is the second night in a row where we have gone out and she had caused a scene, during the argument tonight and me asking her why she called someone elses name she said i do not make her feel good enough and she punched me in the face.

 

I really care about this girl but when we have a drink it seems all her problems come out and it causes a massive rift between us.

 

I do care about her but the fact she has drunkily called another guys name out during sex and not seemd to care has really put doubts in my mind. I know she is drunk but i would never call out another girls name and she has gone straight to sleep without fighting what she said

 

Any thoughts?

 

Thanks

 

 

the fact that she screamed someone elses name itself shows that she is rubbing herself all the time thinking about this other dude. now you have just become a cuckold in the relationship. you are a total bitch that she is using to vent her frustrations coz she cant have sex with her dream guy. Save further embarassment and end it. what a joke!!

[Bialy]

Does she have to be drunk to want sex? She may want to figure out why. You want to have sex with someone who doesn't need alcohol to get into it.

 

If it's the only way she can relax and enjoy herself, I wouldn't be surprised if she yells that guy's name again. She's obviously thinking about this other guy a lot.

[bubbaganoosh]

Not bad enough that she calls out another guys name twice but then to get hit? No way friend. That's something you don't have to put up with.

 

If it's me I walk away. She can't hold her booze is one thing but her behavior stinks to high heaven.

 

Move on friend and find someone better. She's going to make it hard on you

[smudge21]

The fact she is in the wrong yet keeps saying it's because you don't do enough for her! Seriously? What about her doing enough for you - like not thinking about another guy whilst you're sleeping with her. That would be a start.

 

Walk or even run from this one. It's clear she has no respect for you anymore and no matter what she does wrong, it will be turned round to be your fault. You, like everyone else, deserve better. We are often treated badly because we allow it.

 

Sorry but the whole "I only scream out another mans name during orgasm because you don't buy me pizza" is taking the piss...

[Toodaloo]

she initiated sex. Half way through she called out another guys name,

 

she said its because i do not do enough for her.

 

Tonight we went our for dinner which i bought and then we went and had some drinks and that is where things started to go wrong, she lost her dad a few years ago and started crying a lot,

 

When we are sober we get on really well but this is the second night in a row where we have gone out and she had caused a scene,

 

during the argument tonight and me asking her why she called someone elses name she said i do not make her feel good enough and she punched me in the face.

 

Any thoughts?

 

Yes - I have a thought.

 

Why are you bothering to ask us what you should do. Instead you should have ditched her already and now be asking advice on how to make better choices and how to get over her...

 

That one is a catalogue of disasters.