hasekninh Posted September 1, 2016 Posted September 1, 2016 My ex and I just broke up recently, we been together 3 yrs ltr. She just came back from vacation and thing turn down hill. We talk about it and I try to work it out w her. She is in a really difficult situation now financially. She just a collge student w no job. She wanted to move out her family house, family issue, but she can't afford the rent.etc. So she ask me for advice. I told her to family about her moving out and help her with the rent. Or I told her that I can lend her money and she can return to me back later. Or she could move in w me. I can support her w everything. After I said that the next day we broke up. She accuse me that I alway worry about money and that I money is the top priority over her. She accuse that am cheap and alway worry about money. That not true, I spend more money for her than all y ex. I spend $1500 for Valentine's day for her only. Pay when we go out, got her gift for her graduation. Bday.etc.. After the broke up, I offer to pay for her rent for several month so she can get on her feet and she doesnt have to pay me. She REFUUSE MY OFFER..She still mad and upset. Am her ex and am trying to help.her. She.supposed to come down here to.visit me.on my day now she cancel the airline ticket. She said I only go to see my bf not my friend. The way she talk to me now are really harsh and mean. Seem like she doesnt want to talk to me or deal anything w me. When we were together we promise to be strong and she promise ro be commitment together. Now it all gone.. What did I do wrong? Is she for love or money?
books2 Posted September 2, 2016 Posted September 2, 2016 Hey man... Pretty harsh how she turned on you! I don't know what you did wrong... But I am thinking she did not like your solutions when you guys talked about her financial problems... Maybe she was expecting something else. Anyways... I would never pay 1500$ for anyone valentine's day! Jez, that is A LOT! I would not pay for her rent either... Don't make her financial problem yours... Be cheap man! And be proud of it... (Okay, that's just how I am myself)... Don't know what to say to you... Sounds like a real crappy GF... Take, take, take, take... And it's never enough... I know it hurts, but find yourself someone better that will have healthy finances... Imagine how better that would be for you! Good luck mate!
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