Don't know what kind of person is this

[SRever]

3 years of relationship.

This is my story.

It all started 3 years ago. We met each other and we felt in love.

She is a person that unfortunately does not have anything. She is struggling for living. Barely have money, and has no family. She is renting a house with her mom, and struggling to pay for it, because her mom does not work. Just a sick bipolar mother, that doesn't work and try to live at someone's expensive, in this case, at her daughter expensive. Just a sad history of live.

I really loved her. I tried all my best to give her what I could give. I've always been at her side, trying to motivate her, and trying to give her a better live.

Plus, I gave her a house (when her mother put her out of their house) where she didn't pay anything to live on.

Last year, at our 1 year and 7 months, she started to work at a restaurant, and in 4 days, she cheated on me with a guy that he meet there. Only 4 days of work with him, and she cheated on me. On the day that I discovered (the same day she cheated on me) I had a hotel reservation for her, because her birthday was on the next day. Even so, I went with her to hotel, and we just talked for about 3h. Next day( her birthday) I spent it with her. Next day, she dumped on me, and started to go out with the guy, and speaking rude with me, even more, I got burned by her. She started to play with me on that day. Like I was ****. I felt like garbage on that day.

After 1 week, she called me, saying that she wanted to see me. I was stupid, and get in contact. She said she wanted me back. And that she will finish that flirt with the other guy. I believed her, but she didn't do it, and restarted to going out with him. After 3 days, she come back again, and we started to go out for 2 weeks, until I discovered their messages on Facebook, where she named me "the other one" when talking to him.

Got really upset, and sent her a message where I said that she was a lier, and all that she wanted was playing with my feelings.

I didn't contact her, and 2 days later she started to call me like crazy. More than 50 calls straight. Messages everywhere. Saying everything, and started to trying to search for me everywhere. I didn't say anything.

After 3.more days, she discovered me and started to talk, and crying a lot. She said everything and about a week later, we started dating again. I decided to give her a "second" opportunity.

We dated one more year, my confidence was broken, until this June where she started to beg for space. She said she needed space, because she does not have any friends, and needed to meet new people, and have a life. I give her some space, but we was seeing each other almost everyday. She started to go out with some people, and never invited me.

3 weeks later we went on holidays. 2 weeks in Asia, discovering the world, last July.

One week after we return, she started to go out with people that she called friends, but was just people that she met on the beach, like 4 years ago.

I always invited her to be with my friends, and my family.

I couldn't keep that, because my confidence was broken last year, and I was not invited again. I decided to break up. I loved her. I really loved her.

We speak 3 days after and she decided to break up too. It was our decision. I loved her but I couldn't keep that. She decided to start to going out with her "friends" and not inviting me.

After 2 weeks, I saw her with another guy, kissing in his car.

Sent her 5 messages, saying all the dirty things that crossed my mind. I was in anger on that moment, when I saw that. She instantly blocked me in every social media site/app.

I know now, that I never ever will be with her again. Never again. I don't want to. Even if I have some feelings for her, is not the same thing after I saw what I saw. It was 3 years, seeing each other almost everyday.

I just could not understand why she keeps our photo as her profile photo on fb, and, have a lot of photos with me on her instagram account, photos that we took about a month ago, on our trip to Asia.

What is she thinking? That last year I turned back to her, and that if she keeps the photos, I will turn back one day, if that flirt where she is on now, don't go right?

Me and my family always supported her, she is a person that does not have anyone by her side, unless her crazy mother.

I brought stability to her life, I gave her my family too, to support her, I did all the best I could do to her. She lived the best moments of her life with me, until now.

How can even exist someone like this? Who has no feelings, and don't want stability. That don't have any moral values.

I cannot be with another girl now. And she is already with a guy, almost 20 year older than her .

Could not understand that ****.

Damn

[sooshi]

She is someone who is not good for you.

 

Go no contact.

 

Take care.

[Zahara]

Best to focus on why you tolerated being ill-treated -- it wasn't love, more so co-dependence on your part when you keep going back to dysfunction. Instead of wondering what kind of person she is, it's time to point the finger at yourself.

 

Stay away from her. Stay NC.

[SRever]

Best to focus on why you tolerated being ill-treated -- it wasn't love, more so co-dependence on your part when you keep going back to dysfunction. Instead of wondering what kind of person she is, it's time to point the finger at yourself.

 

Stay away from her. Stay NC.

 

Yeah. It is true. I do not know how I tolerated that last here.

I thought anyone in this world make errors, so I apologise her.

 

I sent her a message days after we broke, telling her to delete the recent photos, and her profile pic, that is no longer true. She didn't do that. All the photos are still there

[SRever]

It is really difficult for me. We were on holidays last july. I have some really recent memories with her. When we spoke last time, she cried, but while reviewing memories, didn't say a word. Like if those memories don't have impact on her.

She theb asked me if we worked together.

Gave me a hug, and went NC

[Zahara]

It is really difficult for me. We were on holidays last july. I have some really recent memories with her. When we spoke last time, she cried, but while reviewing memories, didn't say a word. Like if those memories don't have impact on her.

She theb asked me if we worked together.

Gave me a hug, and went NC

 

You need to block her. You've invested too much time in this and if you don't block her, chances are she may swing around again some day and drag you back into the hell hole.

[SRever]

She blocked.me already. I have blocked her too.

But she keeps those recent photos there. She keeps everything there.

 

She has nobody in her life. If that stupid flirt don't go right, she must be thinking that I am here waiting for her. And I am not.

Maybe she just want to confuse me more, thinking that I am in her hand, like the last year.

[Zahara]

She blocked.me already. I have blocked her too.

But she keeps those recent photos there. She keeps everything there.

 

She has nobody in her life. If that stupid flirt don't go right, she must be thinking that I am here waiting for her. And I am not.

Maybe she just want to confuse me more, thinking that I am in her hand, like the last year.

 

If she's blocked how do you know she has pictures up? Block her from social media as well.

 

Yes, she thinks you'll do what you've always done. Be available.

[SRever]

If she's blocked how do you know she has pictures up? Block her from social media as well.

 

Yes, she thinks you'll do what you've always done. Be available.

 

Some friend said me. Almost a month now, and the pictures are a up.

Don't understand that.

 

She is now blocked from social media. Blocked her when that happened.

 

Yeah, maybe she think is that. And that is the reason for her not to delete those photos

[Zahara]

Some friend said me. Almost a month now, and the pictures are a up.

Don't understand that.

 

She is now blocked from social media. Blocked her when that happened.

 

Yeah, maybe she think is that. And that is the reason for her not to delete those photos

 

Tell your friends to stop feeding you information. If you are going to NC, that would mean zero information about her. Your friends should know better than to feed you.

 

What don't you understand? The pictures are bait. It's to keep you on the backburner. It's to leave you there sitting with hope. When and if this fails, you'll be right there waiting for her because you were holding on to photos.