iReapZz Posted September 1, 2016 Posted September 1, 2016 Hey everyone. So, 2 months ago I met with a girl and I fell in love with her, but I didn't make a move because I was afraid. She liked me too. (it's confirmed) She probably got tired of me not doing anything and she moved on even when I told her that I love her. Well, at first it wasn't a big deal to me, I didn't know that I was so crazy about her, but soo I realised that I love her more than anything, so everyday I miss her more and more.... I started being depressed without her, I can't enjoy anything anymore and I know that I have to talk to her again. We are STILL talking on facebook, nothing changed between us except the way she is feeling for me and now we don't see each other so much.. So, insted of keep crying and complaining I decided to change myself, to become better in every way and to decide what I want from her. And now I'm sure that I want to try again and win her heart this time, so yeah, I will do ANYTHING to win her back.. I'm sure that a part of her still likes me.. Any suggestions? Should I just go talk to her and tell her how I feel? Should I show her how I feel by doing nice things about her? Any help would be appreciated.
smackie9 Posted September 1, 2016 Posted September 1, 2016 You can't force someone to like you the way you do. I doubt you not making a move made her pull away...it was that you told her you loved her. She doesn't feel love for you, she may have just "liked" you. She got creeped out. Doing nice things for her, sucking up to her will have negative affect on her. You don't want to smother her. It makes you look needy, and that is a turn off. Act kool and aloof, send her pics of you doing exciting things, partying, make sure there are girls around you, showing her you are having a good time and that you are busy with life. Workout, lift weights, get all buffy. This will up your value, but there is no guarantee she will come around again, but worth a try. To be desirable is to be less available.
Author iReapZz Posted September 1, 2016 Author Posted September 1, 2016 You can't force someone to like you the way you do. I doubt you not making a move made her pull away...it was that you told her you loved her. She doesn't feel love for you, she may have just "liked" you. She got creeped out. Doing nice things for her, sucking up to her will have negative affect on her. You don't want to smother her. It makes you look needy, and that is a turn off. Act kool and aloof, send her pics of you doing exciting things, partying, make sure there are girls around you, showing her you are having a good time and that you are busy with life. Workout, lift weights, get all buffy. This will up your value, but there is no guarantee she will come around again, but worth a try. To be desirable is to be less available. I know that I can't force someone to love me, but that's not the case. Her brother is my friend and he told me that she wanted to be with me but she moved on because I didn't make a move. She wanted someone that would do the first move. So it's confirmed. Now, I've changed, I am sure that I can make her want me again somehow, but I don't know the right way.
smackie9 Posted September 1, 2016 Posted September 1, 2016 OK so she got turned off by your lack of confidence. Like I said, you need to back off for a bit, and make yourself look good to create desire say like a few weeks. Then do it by the player's hand book the push and pull method. Show some attention, then back off. Let her come to you. This will make you more desirable, and look more confident in yourself. Once you know you got her hooked, ask her out, but don't be all lovey dovey....be strong/kool, relaxed....don't be all googlie eyed like some sucky puppy. Be forward and bold like grab her hand, and move in for a kiss at the end of the date. CONFIDENCE IS CRUCIAL
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