unforgotten Posted September 1, 2016 Posted September 1, 2016 Thats right. I've noticed these things recently and I want to get rid of them ASAP. I have finally find myself a new girlfriend who is everything I ever wanted. I think my past breakup with a long term gf who cheated on me left a huge damage on my psyche. I get jealous and keep looki g for some reasurrance to feel secure and calm. I want to spend a lot of time with her. When I'm not reasurred I wonder if she's really that into me or if she is capable of hurting me or leave me all of a sudden or if her behavior has changed. Stupid thoughts like that that make me anxious and have put fear inside of me. I didnt act on these thoughts too much yet but you know people can sense insecurity and bitterness etc. I dont want these things to ruin my new relationship that is so far something I could only hope for. I want to eliminate these fears etc. in the early stages. I know I have a problem but I want to solve it. Can someone give me some helpful advice?
mikeylo Posted September 1, 2016 Posted September 1, 2016 The damage can't be undone fast. Stuff like cheating leaves a deep affect. Get some counseling. Sometimes it takes few sessions only depending on your resilience and overall damage.
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