MsJayne Posted September 1, 2016 Posted September 1, 2016 You meet a guy and you get along pretty well. After a couple of weeks he invites you on a date and you go out for dinner. Whilst having dinner you are chatting and then out of the blue he mentions that the young lady on the other side of the room "has the best set of tits" he has ever seen. Is this acceptable behaviour from a man who has invited you on a date?
getsmartie Posted September 1, 2016 Posted September 1, 2016 You meet a guy and you get along pretty well. After a couple of weeks he invites you on a date and you go out for dinner. Whilst having dinner you are chatting and then out of the blue he mentions that the young lady on the other side of the room "has the best set of tits" he has ever seen. Is this acceptable behaviour from a man who has invited you on a date? I can't believe you even have to ask this question??? 2
mrs rubble Posted September 1, 2016 Posted September 1, 2016 I hope you pointed out the man with the loveliest torso in the place for him as well!! 1
Author MsJayne Posted September 1, 2016 Author Posted September 1, 2016 I can't believe you even have to ask this question??? Hahaha! The reason I ask is because I told him where to go, and when I told a couple of my girlfriends - one said I was overreacting, and the other said it was normal for men to behave like that!! I think they must have really low standards. I just wanted to see what other women thought. So, thank you ladies. 5
Fair Posted September 1, 2016 Posted September 1, 2016 I'd tell your friends to raise their standards!! 1
smudge21 Posted September 1, 2016 Posted September 1, 2016 The only time that would ever be acceptable would be if both you were playing the same game. He just jumped right in there and talked to you like he would another male friend. What a dick! I mean, he could've at least tried to fix it with "... but they're nothing compared to yours!". 2
Toodaloo Posted September 1, 2016 Posted September 1, 2016 You meet a guy and you get along pretty well. After a couple of weeks he invites you on a date and you go out for dinner. Whilst having dinner you are chatting and then out of the blue he mentions that the young lady on the other side of the room "has the best set of tits" he has ever seen. Is this acceptable behaviour from a man who has invited you on a date? Depends if you think it is acceptable. Personally I have no problem with a guy looking at boobs. So my response would probably have been "Damn if you liked those I am gutted I didn't point out the pair that just walked past the window!" then I would pose the question of it being appropriate/ acceptable behaviour. "So do you think it is acceptable to look and admire other women while you are on a first date? What sort of image of yourself do you think that projects?" His answer would depend on whether I stay longer or not. 1
Arieswoman Posted September 1, 2016 Posted September 1, 2016 I'd have said " I may be blocking your view, so I'm going. Byeee" And then left. I had guys say stuff I didn't like before, and I always walked..... 2
spiderowl Posted September 1, 2016 Posted September 1, 2016 You meet a guy and you get along pretty well. After a couple of weeks he invites you on a date and you go out for dinner. Whilst having dinner you are chatting and then out of the blue he mentions that the young lady on the other side of the room "has the best set of tits" he has ever seen. Is this acceptable behaviour from a man who has invited you on a date? No, it is a big red flag. I suspect you know that though or you would not have asked the question. 2
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