semi Posted July 5, 2005 Posted July 5, 2005 So it has been a couple of weeks since i last talked to my ex. I made it clear we weren't speaking again. The ex who cheated on me and manipulated me. I can't seem to let go of the past. I can't let go of imaginary scenarios about how things would be now if I could only change the past. I know I need an attitude adjustment but I think there is something else I need right now as well. I don't know what that other thing is either. Please help me. I feel like this one is going to take a long, long time to get over. I know I am better off and it will get better but it really is eating away at me. I kind of feel like she is going to call at any moment but I know that she won't. I should be pissed not depressed. Actually I should feel indifferent, I shouldn't give a rat's a** about her but I can't. Some advice or support would be great.
Zaira Posted July 5, 2005 Posted July 5, 2005 Originally posted by semi The ex who cheated on me and manipulated me. This should say enough. You can't change the past, so steer your thoughts away from those "what ifs". You deserve better - keep reminding yourself that. Break-ups do take time to get over though, don't be so harsh on yourself.
Delicaterose00 Posted July 8, 2005 Posted July 8, 2005 My ex of 2 years, thought he was the one..... cheated on me in May... I was told from his Bestfreind there were more, but this time he was just caught.... Its been a few months and I am still waking up in the morning crying, smoking like a feen, feel like Ill never get over this.... You feel like no one understands and you are all alone... but your not.. Im right there with you sweetie..... You have to keep telling yourself your strong and better off...... You have to keep telling yourself that it was all lies, you were a toy.... I still think everyday of our whole relationship, it runs through my head everyday.. from the moment we met to the time it ended..... Ya the beginning was freaking great.... it was towards the end that the real guy came out.... tell yourself you will not settle for less, you deserve the best!!!!!!!!!!!!! No you are not alone... I hope you have a better day today as I hope I do. And remember the world isnt over, even though we think that, we will meet someone soon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Always, Kristen
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