Should I ask her?

[Wait2see]

So I should probably already know the answer to this but sometimes I just jump the gun and do weird stuff. Anyway I just met this girl at a meet up event and we really hit it off and had great chemistry. Her friend had to leave which made her leave before I had a chance to ask her out. So I messaged her on meet up the next morning - just saying it was nice to meet her and I would like to see her again. She answered back in just like 2 minutes and wrote-Yes you too see you at the next meet up!- Now the next one is like 2 months away and I really want to get to know this girl and don't want to mess it up, should I message her on the meetup site again and ask her out, or would that seem creepy, or should I just suck it up and see if anything happens at the next meetup. Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated

[grays]

I'm not sure what you SHOULD do, but j know I wouldn't have enough patience for that and there's no guarantee that she'll even be there. Maybe you can come up w something you think she'll be interested in (something you talked about or something related to whatever the meetup was) that's two or three weeks out (somehow a little time seems more relaxed) and message her "I'm going to this thing and it made me think of you, would you like to join me? Would be nice to see you again..."

[Lansing]

Her saying "see you at the next meetup" makes me think she isn't interested because she didn't leave it open for more conversation. If she said "yeah, I would like to see you again too" then you could have asked her out on a date.

 

The thing is, you probably won't know until you ask. I like grays idea. That way you aren't waiting around for ever. Leave it for a while and then try what he said. Something of a mutual interest and you thought she might enjoy it. That is a low pressure way of asking her out initially.

[Romantic Gentleman]

2 months!? Ask her out man, or she may be gone