Just2016 Posted August 30, 2016 Posted August 30, 2016 Every so often it's said that women talk about their boyfriend with their guy friend, but is the opposite also the true? A little over a year ago I met a girl and as time went on I was of the impression that we both were single that was until I found out some 6 months later that she had a boyfriend who she already had been seeing some months before she met me. All this time in between she never gave out the impression that she was seeing someone, so it was really weird for me to find out about this. Do women talk about their male friend with their boyfriend and why would they keep a boyfriend a secret to a male friend? I don't understand this.
phineas Posted August 30, 2016 Posted August 30, 2016 She likes the free attention and you might of bailed if you knew. Also, you weren't making a move so why would she have a reason to tell you? 1
smackie9 Posted August 30, 2016 Posted August 30, 2016 Because she was having an emotional affair with you, and purposely kept her BF a secret. She wanted to make sure you were kept on the hook. 1
Author Just2016 Posted August 31, 2016 Author Posted August 31, 2016 She likes the free attention and you might of bailed if you knew. Also, you weren't making a move so why would she have a reason to tell you? You might be right, but still she is not unpopular or anything and could easily get attention from anyone. Maybe she just had been stringing me along all this time. Because she was having an emotional affair with you, and purposely kept her BF a secret. She wanted to make sure you were kept on the hook. Can you explain to me this concept of an emotional affair. I am not sure what this mean?
Author Just2016 Posted August 31, 2016 Author Posted August 31, 2016 Also, ever since she revealed her now current boyfriend, they seem to really like each other. So what does she need my attention for? I might understood that better if she were not happy in her relationship.
Author Just2016 Posted August 31, 2016 Author Posted August 31, 2016 I would not care for attention from someone I was not interested in. So why would this be different from a girl?
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