Chrys Posted August 30, 2016 Posted August 30, 2016 She likes me and we ended up together a few times, she wants a relationship with me also, but i have noticed that sometimes she really doesn't give a **** about me. Like today for example i had an important test in my college, she knew i had it. After i finished she didn't even ask me how it went, if i passed, nothing. It's like she just doesn't care, and i know she was online(she even is right now). When she does something small like even get her nails done i am the first one to know, or anything else for that matter, and i always ask her how her test went and everything like that. Things like this bother me because it makes me think that i care about her but she doesn't care about me at all (which i know is not true since we have a long history together). Currently she is at a vacation with her parents, isn't really online often, but that doesn't really mean anything.
Gloria25 Posted August 30, 2016 Posted August 30, 2016 What are you two? If you're not in RL yet, then wouldn't her having regular communication and demonstrating interest in you w/o dating you would be perceived as her smothering you? My recent FWB, I texted him upon important stuff (ie his finals, graduation, studying for the bar exam). And, although I believe that I kept it light and simple, he took it as me wanting to propose marriage. So, maybe she's holding back not to come off as whatever, cuz she's not dating you yet. For people that I don't have romantic interest in (ie co-workers, friends, family), yeah I keep up with them and show I care by checking in with them, asking how their week is going and upon things that are important to them...but, with them I don't have to worry about them thinking that I'm proposing marriage when all I am is someone he sees now/then.
Author Chrys Posted August 30, 2016 Author Posted August 30, 2016 What are you two? If you're not in RL yet, then wouldn't her having regular communication and demonstrating interest in you w/o dating you would be perceived as her smothering you? My recent FWB, I texted him upon important stuff (ie his finals, graduation, studying for the bar exam). And, although I believe that I kept it light and simple, he took it as me wanting to propose marriage. So, maybe she's holding back not to come off as whatever, cuz she's not dating you yet. For people that I don't have romantic interest in (ie co-workers, friends, family), yeah I keep up with them and show I care by checking in with them, asking how their week is going and upon things that are important to them...but, with them I don't have to worry about them thinking that I'm proposing marriage when all I am is someone he sees now/then. We are not dating, you do have an interesting point, but i would not feel smothered at all by that. It just shows me that she cares, a simple: "Did you pass?" would not be a problem at all..
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