ButtonPusher Posted July 5, 2005 Posted July 5, 2005 Well my story is much the same as many here; ex girlfriend broke up (dumped over the phone actually) with me 3 months ago, kept in touch for about 2 months (talking about twice a week), happy to say I never begged to be taken back, but I did feel pretty crap about it all. And 3 weeks ago I decided I'd had enough of being reminded that I meant crap all to her these days, so I stopped contacting her. Anyway, I get a call last night from an anonymous number and I had a feeling it was her. Didnt answer, and then the number called again, which pretty much confirmed it for me it was her. She called a couple more times and then once more 30 mins later. I felt good that I didnt give in and answer it and was quite chuffed with myself. But then this morning I find that my mind is starting to have those stupid thoughts again about how we could get back together again and work things out, even though I have got to the point where I thought I was convinced I never wanted that! WTF is it with our minds?? Why does it choose to go back to thinking about things that hurt us? I reckon evolution really screwed up with humans by putting these emotions in us. Perhaps we would have been better off if we were like wild animals that got horny once a year, had a root, raised the off spring for a short period and then forgot about each other. Lol so much simpler.
Zaira Posted July 5, 2005 Posted July 5, 2005 It's nice to feel wanted, and I'd say that is why you're feeling like you are. You've been strong until now, so keep it up. However, if you feel you want to talk to her, pick up the phone!!!
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