Author Coolmee Posted August 29, 2016 Author Posted August 29, 2016 I was really honest with him from the begining i told him that i don't love him,and that i still wanted to go on a second date with him.And he said that it didn't bother him that i don't love him and that he would wait for me.I just don't think that i did something wrong
Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted August 29, 2016 Posted August 29, 2016 I was really honest with him from the begining i told him that i don't love him,and that i still wanted to go on a second date with him.And he said that it didn't bother him that i don't love him and that he would wait for me.I just don't think that i did something wrong How old are the pair of you?
Author Coolmee Posted August 29, 2016 Author Posted August 29, 2016 How old are the pair of you? I'm 19 and he's 24.
Daisy-oliviaWentcher Posted August 29, 2016 Posted August 29, 2016 I'm 19 and he's 24. So your both super young. But he is old enough at least to know better. He tells you on the 1st date he's in love with you? Girl, this is when you say thank you but no thank you! this is crazy talk. It doesn't matter whose wrong or right anymore. Just move on! Ugh.
Zahara Posted August 29, 2016 Posted August 29, 2016 I was really honest with him from the begining i told him that i don't love him,and that i still wanted to go on a second date with him.And he said that it didn't bother him that i don't love him and that he would wait for me.I just don't think that i did something wrong Look, people are not obligated to wait around until you feel something for them. If he feels he's not getting anywhere and wants to exit, he had every right to do so. And if after 3 months you're only past one date and not into the guy, best you move along and meet other people. Personally, if I only had a date with a guy within 3 months of talking, I'd be bored as hell and likely focusing my attention on others. 1
Author Coolmee Posted August 29, 2016 Author Posted August 29, 2016 maybe he just didn't wanna pursue this anymore,i totally get it.I just think an explanation would've been good
stillafool Posted August 30, 2016 Posted August 30, 2016 I was really honest with him from the begining i told him that i don't love him,and that i still wanted to go on a second date with him.And he said that it didn't bother him that i don't love him and that he would wait for me.I just don't think that i did something wrong It's not that you did anything wrong, you were honest about your low interest in him, but now he is doing what's right which is finding another girl with a higher interest. So now, why don't you leave this guy alone and find a guy you really like to date. This one is gone.
stillafool Posted August 30, 2016 Posted August 30, 2016 maybe he just didn't wanna pursue this anymore,i totally get it.I just think an explanation would've been good He wasn't your bf so he owes you nothing.
Redhead14 Posted August 30, 2016 Posted August 30, 2016 Hello everyone.so this is what happened ;I met this guy from tinder and we kept talking for about three months he was reallly into me more than i was into him.we even went on a date once and he told me later that he was more attracted to me after we met,i personally didn't like him that much but just didn't want to reject him and we continued talking.i'm not saying i didn't like him at all, it's just that he wasn't really my type but it didn't bother me to keep talking to him because he was so sweet and all,and i thought maybe after a second date i'll start liking him more,he always said that he loved me and he was so lucky to have me and stuff,but i never said i that i loved him because i didn't want to lie .So lately;we stopped talking much and i asked him why,he told me that he had a problem with whatssapp ,that he had changed his phone and whatssapp doesn't work on this new phone.so after this, he just dissapeared he even stopped texting and never tried to call ,it has been a week now.I thought maybe he lost my number,so i called him with a private number and he answered and i hang up the phone.after that i sent him a text from my sister's number this morning it was 'still alive?' but he didn't reply.so what do you guys think? Ps;i did not use my number because i have this problem i can't call or text but still can receive phone calls and text messages. Sorry if i made some mistakes english is my second language You're fretting over a guy you only know thru the "virtual world" and met once? but he didn't reply.so what do you guys think? -- He moved on. Were you intimate with him on the one date you had?
Mrin Posted August 30, 2016 Posted August 30, 2016 He probably met someone he likes more. You reap what you sow. You weren't upfront about how you felt about him. Why would you expect him to be any different?
SpiralOut Posted August 30, 2016 Posted August 30, 2016 well,he could've just told me i don't think this is working out because you don't feel the same way.but not just disappear He wants to avoid a confrontation or uncomfortable conversation. He's hoping that you will get the hint. He may also figure that you won't notice or care if he disappears, since you haven't been showing him much interest anyway.
Author Coolmee Posted August 30, 2016 Author Posted August 30, 2016 You're fretting over a guy you only know thru the "virtual world" and met once? but he didn't reply.so what do you guys think? -- He moved on. Were you intimate with him on the one date you had? No we weren't.the thing is we were talking daily he told me everything his plans and all,and so did I.so i think an explanation would've been good i would've accepted it and that's it. But he just ghosted so of course i'm going to Wonder what happened.
Author Coolmee Posted August 30, 2016 Author Posted August 30, 2016 He probably met someone he likes more. You reap what you sow. You weren't upfront about how you felt about him. Why would you expect him to be any different? Like u said i was upfront about how i felt,maybe he should've done the same thing and explained to me that he wasn't okay with this
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