Social media question

[Reznar]

I met this girl recently, she likes me and we ended up together, she knows i like her too, but she never likes any of the photos i post... We are texting a lot and it's going really well. I know it sounds stupid and i don't care about likes but i just find it strange. She either likes my photos a few days after i post them, but in 90% of cases she doesn't like them at all. And i know she has seen them so...

[Madame_Noire]

Don't focus too much on social media. It is all for show, too ostentatious for my liking. Concentrate on what happens behind closed doors. The relationship is between the two of you not what is conveyed to your mutual 'friends'

[Romantic Gentleman]

Don't think too hard on it man. Keep building your relationship with the girl you're talking to, and you'll remember this post being irrelevant in the future

[Mr. Lucky]

I know it sounds stupid and i don't care about likes but i just find it strange. She either likes my photos a few days after i post them, but in 90% of cases she doesn't like them at all. And i know she has seen them so...

 

Maybe she doesn't like "likes". Makes me glad I met my wife before the rise of social media...

 

Mr. Lucky

[basil67]

Reznar, you've already made one post about her not liking your photos. And a post not long before that which I assume was about her.

 

The thing which is coming through loud and clear in your posts is that you're second guessing everything. And seeming a bit desperate to keep her.

 

Unfortunately, worrying like you are will only have the opposite effect of driving her away. You know how women like secure guys? The way you're acting is the opposite.

 

Change it up a bit: Be a great boyfriend. But know that if it doesn't work out, you'll be fine and move on. And she will be fine and move on. Try not to be so worried about it not working that you end up destroying it.