Michellinda Posted August 29, 2016 Posted August 29, 2016 So I am finally coming out of the fog and realizing how much better off I am being rid of this toxic abusive relationship but now I am so angry. Angry at myself for having putting up with the abuse (the insults, the spitting, slapping, punching, biting, non affection, putting all the blame on me etc.) I am also so angry at him and want revenge. I hate feeling so angry Another thing he has my things (I was living with him) and promised he would help me take all my stuff out of his place. I haven't heard a peep from him. What game is he playing?
JewelD Posted August 29, 2016 Posted August 29, 2016 If they are things you need, take a friend and go and get your stuff. As for the anger, I suggest getting a journal and writing in it every time you feel upset or anxious. The best revenge is moving on and leaving that person in the past. 2
Author Michellinda Posted August 29, 2016 Author Posted August 29, 2016 I am going today and getting everything out. Thank you and your right best thing is to move on work on myself and forget about him!
aloneinaz Posted August 29, 2016 Posted August 29, 2016 I agree.. Get your things ASAP. Insure there's NO reason for any further contact w/him. Then what you need to do is VANISH from that persons life. He's your past. Leave them there. We all have an ex-toxic R/S in our past. Trust me, you'll be SSOO glad they are in your past when you're finally over it completely. Like any mistake in life, learn what you can so you DON'T repeat it in your future. You'll get past this. We all have and I can tell you that I'm SSOO grateful to have not settled for my toxic ex. I moved on and found someone I'm compatible with and has no drama. My happiness scale is over the moon, even after 3 years together w/this new gal. You'll move on and find the same! 2
Author Michellinda Posted August 29, 2016 Author Posted August 29, 2016 Thank you.., this gives me hope that I will find someone I'm compatible with who makes me feel wonderful and treats me like a queen. I can't believe how strong I feel I was feeling horrible but have finally realized I deserve better than this.
preraph Posted August 29, 2016 Posted August 29, 2016 You should be angry. Now be careful and take someone with you, and let a third party know you're going who's not going. Get your stuff. He's holding it hostage. If he hasn't changed the locks, so it while he's at work. If he has, and won't answer the door, call police. 1
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