gaius Posted August 29, 2016 Posted August 29, 2016 A guy who's such a passive loser that he's already busy asking you if he should come to the front door or not on the first date probably isn't going to improve any. So I would have the let's be friends conversation sooner rather than later or you'll probably be stuck in another make out session with your brother on the second date. And longer this time.
introverted1 Posted August 29, 2016 Posted August 29, 2016 I said he's someone I wouldn't normally go for if I'd met him on the street. As I said, I'm very new to the dating scene and I wasn't particularly focused on his photos or things, but rather on just meeting new people and experiencing new things that I never have before.. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm just looking to meet new people, and if I feel romantically attracted to that person I'd like to take it further, but if not, then I still would value some sort of relationship/friendship (especially with him). There's nothing wrong with the above BUT there is something wrong with 1) Not making your intention clear from the start (pretty sure there is a "just friends" option in most OLD sites, plus you can state this in your bio; and 2) allowing the man to pay. If you are just wanting to be friends, then you should definitely be paying your own way. 1
stillafool Posted August 29, 2016 Posted August 29, 2016 I said he's someone I wouldn't normally go for if I'd met him on the street. As I said, I'm very new to the dating scene and I wasn't particularly focused on his photos or things, but rather on just meeting new people and experiencing new things that I never have before.. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I'm just looking to meet new people, and if I feel romantically attracted to that person I'd like to take it further, but if not, then I still would value some sort of relationship/friendship (especially with him). I agree. Having my mind made up before the kiss was a bit of a let down. Then continue to meet new people and tell this guy it isn't going to work. Why waste time with someone you are not attracted to? You aren't desperate, are you?
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