WonderKid Posted August 27, 2016 Posted August 27, 2016 I think it is total BS. I think she did this on purpose. I haven't talked to her in over a month. I'm a guy with a foot fetish. That is actually how we ended up meeting is from one of my foot fetish ads. So for her to answer it and it sounds like me has me thinking she is reaching. The title said "Footfetish Girlfriend" Only thing that was off was the age. It said 25 but I am 26. 6'1", body art, and don't smoke. She KNOWS I know I cannot be crazy. And she replies asking for my name. I never replied back. Plus I put the name Lephty in there (Lefty) because I am left-handed. And I put my interests for drawing and writing in there. Why would she even ask for a name? She broke up with me because she "just wanted to be single". She needed to work more on God. The title clearly says "Girlfriend". So why are you answering such an ad when you clearly walked away from a guy you loved so easily? Every shred character I have is taking me from just going into my email and subtly replying to that. I wouldn't write her a novel I'd just give her two sentences and go away. It's either she is reaching to talk to me or she truly looking for another guy and looking for one like me. But what other guy has a foot fetish and is like that?
RocketQueen Posted August 27, 2016 Posted August 27, 2016 It could be something as simple as her just giving you a heads up so say she knows that you're looking- nothing more. She may have known since she was the one who ended it that it would throw you and set you into a spin (which it has). My Ex ended our relationship and broke NC (instigated by me) after his friend had seen me out 'looking well' - I never saw his friend so we didn't speak. He was basically wanting to know if I was moving on or open to looking for someone else. My thoughts are if they want you back they will make it clearer than this. Just ignore the reply. Don't respond to anything that leaves you wondering what their intentions are. Take care 1
Author WonderKid Posted August 27, 2016 Author Posted August 27, 2016 Sounds like a plan. I won't reply. If she wanted to talk all she had to do is say something. I'm over all of it now. I know I'm not going back with her. And even if somehow she doesn't know that it's me it is still sad because that means she's looking for a guy exactly like me and it is something she won't have again..
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