blueberrymuffin Posted August 27, 2016 Posted August 27, 2016 I volunteer a couple of nights a week and recently a new guy started volunteering. We are in the same volunteer team and he is shadowing me until he knows how to do what we do. So he is really cute, great career, fun and I'd like to go on a date with him but I can't figure him out. I know he is single. He is really forward and has asked pretty personal questions of everyone, but he takes it to a new level with me. With others it will be like relationship history and family background and then he stops the questions. But with me it's really personal stuff, like just asking my age randomly, googling my name (in front of me) to see what comes up, whether or not I'd change my surname when I get married. Sometimes you can see him thinking about how to ask a question, like he'll start phrasing it in a certain way then stop and then a couple of minutes later phrase it a different way. I mean if he wasn't cute and if I wasn't interested I would be totaly rude to a guy who asked stuff like that. Could asking super personal questions like age, background whatever be a sign of interest or figuring me out a little more before he thinks about making a move?
Gr8fuln2020 Posted August 27, 2016 Posted August 27, 2016 I volunteer a couple of nights a week and recently a new guy started volunteering. We are in the same volunteer team and he is shadowing me until he knows how to do what we do. So he is really cute, great career, fun and I'd like to go on a date with him but I can't figure him out. I know he is single. He is really forward and has asked pretty personal questions of everyone, but he takes it to a new level with me. With others it will be like relationship history and family background and then he stops the questions. But with me it's really personal stuff, like just asking my age randomly, googling my name (in front of me) to see what comes up, whether or not I'd change my surname when I get married. Sometimes you can see him thinking about how to ask a question, like he'll start phrasing it in a certain way then stop and then a couple of minutes later phrase it a different way. I mean if he wasn't cute and if I wasn't interested I would be totaly rude to a guy who asked stuff like that. Could asking super personal questions like age, background whatever be a sign of interest or figuring me out a little more before he thinks about making a move? Of course it can.
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